Success and self-confidence are essential for each of us today. How to achieve success, how to adapt to living conditions that change every day, is it possible to program luck somehow?
Instructions
Step 1
At first glance, the external attributes of success are generally recognized: a good job, an apartment, an expensive car, a summer residence, a normal family, children and, of course, health. If we add to this the opportunity to go on vacation abroad, then we get a portrait of a man on the crest of success. Some people achieve all this, but there is no feeling of success, satisfaction. And there are people who, despite the lack of money and various everyday problems, stubbornly go their own way and often win, because they remain themselves. The ability to be in harmony with yourself and the world around you - this is what determines true life success.
Step 2
One of the prerequisites for success is the expectation of changes and the moral readiness for them. People who want to succeed need to learn to deal with failures correctly, analyzing them and not dramatizing them, learn from their wrong actions. If you cannot do a cold-blooded analysis, if emotions are overwhelmed, then you should just think about how you would perceive what happened in a year or in a few months. Probably in a week only one memory of the past failure will make you only smile.
You should remember your achievements more often and do not dwell on failures.
Step 3
Those who want to be successful need to choose the right social circle. You need to communicate with people energetic, active, because each of us is subject to the influence of his environment. If losers prevail in your social circle, then they will pull you along with them, you yourself will not even notice this. Avoid such a circle of people, as well as people who will always agree with you, approve of all the decisions you make.
Step 4
It is very important to be able to see yourself through the eyes of the people around you in order to understand what impression you make on others.
If you have a rich imagination, then use it to build self-confidence by imagining yourself to be a successful person who has gained the respect of others. Try to adopt the gestures, facial expressions, and gait of someone you know.
To achieve success means. to perceive others and themselves as they are, to experience satisfaction from the march along the path of realizing their abilities.
