The term "lady" seems outdated to many today, but it only implies certain aspects of female behavior, elegance, respect for oneself and others, the ability to communicate with people, etc. In addition, to become a lady, you need to follow current fashion and style trends.
Acquaintance
Learn to act like a lady. Learn the rules for conducting conversations with a group of people, as well as with an individual interlocutor. If you are having a conversation with any person, and at this moment your acquaintance joins the conversation, be sure to introduce him to your interlocutor. In the business environment, it is customary, first of all, to represent a person who has a lower status, for example, a subordinate. Please note that a client of a company always has a higher status than any employee of that company. Introducing a person, try not to be limited only by his name, talk at least about his position, status, etc.
Words of gratitude
Try to thank the other person when necessary. The word "thank you" is perceived by many as banal, but it is an integral part of the lady's vocabulary. If someone does you a favor, always thank that person as you show your respect for them. Thank the people who give you gifts, as a last resort, write notes with words of gratitude. At the same time, you should not thank a person every time if he does a whole series of favors for you, for example, a man looks after you in a restaurant. Take a moment to thank him for all the actions at once.
Self-education and awareness
A real lady should be eloquent and able to support any conversation. Get in the habit of being aware of current events, read more. If you have a specific social circle, try to get more knowledge in your field. Attend seminars, search and study suitable resources on the Internet, read a variety of scientific articles.
Respect
Being a lady also means being respectful of your interlocutor. Never be distant when talking to someone. Listen carefully and show interest. Try not to interrupt the other person and never speak for other people. This will make your conversation more lively and interesting for both parties. If you feel you can help the person, do so.
Personal hygiene
A real lady should take care of her hygiene. Take a shower every day, if you do not want to wash your hair so often, use a special cap. Be sure to brush your teeth twice a day. If you can, brushing them between meals will keep your teeth and gums healthy and your breath whiter. Try to get rid of excess hair on your body in time, make sure that your skin remains clean. Use deodorants.
Wardrobe
Always dress appropriately for the situation, consider your own age. Wear a dress instead of pants whenever possible, it will accentuate your femininity. Never wear sportswear if you are not in an argument at the moment, it shows that you are not paying due attention to your appearance. Take good care of your clothes. Keep it clean at all times; it should also be well ironed. The elegance of a lady requires a certain rigor in dress. Never wear provocative and open dresses (large cleavage, open belly, etc.). Such attire suggests that you are dressing up for others, but not for yourself.
