A person cannot always be surrounded only by comfortable and pleasant personalities. The society consists of different individuals, with whom sometimes you do not want to communicate at all. However, thanks to such people, we can see and realize our shortcomings.
Friends help us in difficult times, support us with advice or financially, however, and enemies are also our "friends". They point out our weaknesses and weaknesses. Often in the enemy, we see those character traits that we do not allow ourselves to express.
In order for the dislike to disappear, you just need to accept those qualities that are in a suppressed state. For example, a coworker annoys you with his rude and impudent mannerisms. Consider, perhaps, you forbid yourself to show character in certain moments of life.
Sometimes the dislike is so strong that you just want to beat your enemy. This does not mean that you are an angry and aggressive person. This moment indicates that it is time to do some introspection and find out the reason for this anger.
By avoiding any contact with our enemies, we thereby avoid the possibility of self-improvement.
There are the following principles for communicating with an unpleasant person:
- Imagine yourself in the place of this person, “become him”;
- try to understand the annoying factor;
- do not forbid yourself to show true emotions, acknowledge them.
It would also be a good idea to visit a psychologist and work in groups related to communication problems. This will help you quickly realize your problem.
