In a difficult life period, you so want to succumb to melancholy and despondency, however, you should not do this. Difficulties are sent to us as a certain lesson that we must learn for ourselves and become wiser. It's never bad all the time; after a series of life failures, you will definitely get lucky.
Nobody lives without problems. Difficulties and various troubles happen to everyone. Someone falls into melancholy and despondency, while someone tries to solve difficult problems and continues to struggle. Troubles and difficulties in life are given to a person so that he learns and comprehends something in this life, therefore, a certain experience must be drawn from any obstacle on the path of life.
Approach the situation constructively by analyzing the problem:
What is the reason I ended up in this situation
So you can find the main mistakes that put you in this position, and then, in the future, try not to repeat them.
What should she teach me
The best teacher is experience. Takes expensive, but explains clearly. Therefore, even in a difficult situation, try to see for yourself the seeds of a positive experience.
What will be the most optimal way out of it
Imagine several outcomes of a situation. Choose the best one and work towards bringing it to life.
Introspection will help you better know yourself, look at your person from the outside. It should be remembered that no matter what difficulties life sends us, after the dark streak, a bright one will surely begin. Everything changes for the better, only sometimes it happens, a little longer - through the worst.