Thoughts program life. Therefore, if you consider yourself a failure, then everything in your life is not going very well. And even the people around you may begin to think of you as a person who is not very successful. To break this circle, you just need to change your thoughts.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't complain to people about your problems. It shapes the attitude of others towards you. If everyone considers you a successful and happy person, then your attitude towards yourself will soon change. Try not to say anything bad about yourself at all. On the contrary, start your day with auto-training. Keep telling yourself that you are a lucky person, that you are doing well. This will help you tune in to a positive mood.
Step 2
Don't feel sorry for yourself. If you don't like something in your life, change it. Let it be gradually, but introduce improvements into your life. For example, if you are not satisfied with your job, post your resume on at least a couple of sites. And if they offer something better, move on to another job.
Step 3
Stop being afraid of change. Remember that everything in our life is done for the better. If you break your heel, then think about the fact that these shoes just did not suit you. And now you can buy new ones that will be more comfortable. If you have family problems, tell your spouse your grievances. Do not be afraid that he will leave you or make a scandal. This is your life, and you must build it in a way that is comfortable for you. Even if there are global changes, they will be beneficial.
Step 4
Buy or create yourself a talisman. It can be anything. For example, get a small keychain and hang it on your keys. Or cut a small plank out of wood, on which you paint a symbol, for example, a Scandinavian rune. Choose a sign that will improve your particular situation. Believe in your talisman and it will definitely bring you happiness.
Step 5
Take action. Never sit back and expect good things to happen to you just like that. Good luck comes only to those who know how to achieve it. You shouldn't lie on the couch and complain about fate. Do something. May it not be of any benefit to you. For example, go skydiving, go to a disco, or just gather all your old friends for a party. Smile, even if you force it. And after a while, a smile will become your constant companion.
