Losers are a category of people who lose in life situations, lose, they are chronically unlucky, everything does not work out for them. They simply attract negative situations to themselves. How to get rid of bad luck?
Losers are a special category. They are called slacks, losers, they are sorry, they are surprised, and yet all their failures are not just an unfavorable combination of circumstances. A loser is a way of thinking. How can you change your mindset in order to get rid of the humiliating diagnosis of "failure"? In order not to feel like a failure, you need to get rid of annoying habits, change your worldview. This is not easy, you have to work hard on yourself!
- Get out of the habit of patiently accepting difficulties and things that you don't like. Don't eat food you hate, don't wear awkward clothes or uncomfortable shoes. Do not tolerate what you don't like! Feel the taste of life.
- Do not hang out with people who are trying to humiliate you, kill your self-esteem and constantly criticize your every action.
- Do not think about what other people think of you, what they will say or think. Your life is unique, you should not grow old for everyone, depriving yourself of the initiative. Remember: if you try to please everyone, you will lose.
- Do not try to burden yourself with other people's problems - you yourself have enough of them. Making promises, fulfilling other people's requests, gaining a reputation as a reliable person, you miss the opportunity to improve your own life, have fun and solve pressing issues for yourself, since all your time is spent on satisfying other people's interests.
- Do not try to control everything around you, take on unbearable responsibility. Get rid of neurosis - even if you haven't managed to do something, don't gnaw yourself! The physical capabilities and stamina of a person are limited, be more indulgent to yourself and do not neglect those people who are ready to help you.
- The path of least resistance is the shortest path to bad luck. You may have to go against someone else's opinions, cross your interests with others. Do not be afraid of this, otherwise you will always yield your "prey" to someone who has more strength and strength in character.
- Don't keep all your feelings locked up. Sometimes it's worth letting go of yourself and saying out loud something that someone might not like. Do not hold a grudge in yourself, sort things out right away. Do not complain about life and do not delve into other people's complaints, do not encourage whiners - they steal your time and luck. Sometimes you have the right to both anger and love - do not be afraid to talk about your feelings out loud, an open, sincere person has much more chances of success.
- Do not be afraid to take risks, but also do not forget about the reasonableness of the risk. When making a risky decision, consider additional options, escape routes. But do not give up risk due to indecision! Do not be afraid to make mistakes - the one who does nothing is not mistaken.
- You cannot think only of others. Try to create your own personal space so that those who live next to you feel warm and comfortable in it. The more comfortable you are, the better the people around you will be with you. Do not forget about relatives and parents - they will always be your support, unlike random people who disown and forget about you right there if something goes wrong in your life.
- Do not spend time locked in four walls, do not be a privet. Don't buy any junk, get rid of unnecessary and old things. leave the most necessary, necessary. Do not collect unnecessary information in your head, do not store it, do not read all sorts of nonsense - there is not much time in life, devote yourself to reading the most necessary and good books.
- Don't dwell on past failures and achievements. What happened yesterday has already disappeared into the past. Think about the future, make plans, but take care of today as well - just as much as necessary. Do not be afraid to dream - dreams, especially sincere ones, always come true.
- Forget about the words "I can't do it", "I can't", "I can't." Do not miss the opportunity to learn something. Also try to avoid the words "If you get something …". A strong verbal formula structures the space, so it is better to say: "When I do this …", "When this and that happens." Thus, you program yourself that everything will definitely turn out the way you want.
- Don't compare yourself to others. Everyone has their own life, their mistakes and their own way. By imitating someone, you will become only a shadow, a copy, not realizing your own potential. Do not envy anyone, it distracts from your own life. Moreover, envious of something, we absolutely do not imagine how many problems the object of our envy can have - problems that we simply do not know about.
- Don't try to be perfect, get the "excellent student" complex out of your head. Try to be independent, but do not be afraid to use someone else's help, feel free to involve supporters and like-minded people in your work, but do not shift the responsibility onto others.
- Don't think bad, don't listen to scary or sad stories. Get rid of shyness, slight insolence or insolence will only give you charm. Never frown in public, smile, people are attracted to it.
- Don't take failure as a universal disaster - but don't treat it as something unimportant and common to you. Analyze your own mistakes - where did you make them? Understand where you made a mistake and what, and do not repeat the mistakes again.
