Modern people change for different reasons, usually each person has his own motive. But psychologists argue that there are common reasons that induce people to do this. Among them: the monotony of family life, the lack of love, the search for an inspirer.
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The most common reason for going left is boredom. After several years of family life, everything repeats itself, every day is similar to the previous one. There are no more vivid feelings, they have become dull, there are no surprises, since everything in a partner is familiar. And this causes a feeling of hopelessness. In such a family, both a man and a woman can change. Often they do not seek to destroy the union, but simply want to decorate their lives a little. Cheating sometimes even helps the family to unite, because the partner then feels guilty and shows love for loved ones more strongly.
Step 2
Lack of love is the second most popular reason for divorce. This can manifest itself in different ways, for example, a life partner is too keen on work or children, he does not have enough strength for a loved one, when he really needs support and understanding. If there is no mutual pastime, and declarations of love have replaced reproaches and demands, the likelihood of adultery greatly increases. And often these are not casual affairs, but serious romances that can lead to unpredictable consequences.
Step 3
Cheating can be an accident. Representatives of the stronger sex often find themselves in such situations, when alcohol and a pleasant atmosphere simply dispose to rest. And if at this moment a beautiful stranger appears, a married man may succumb to her charms. The next day, even her face will become a mystery to him, but the fact of treason will persist. This is referred to as a triggered incident. Usually they don't tell anyone about such things..
Step 4
Refusal to be close to one of the spouses can also push the other to cheat. Some women try to manipulate their companion by refusing to have intimate contacts. At first, this can be very effective, but after some period, the spouse will begin to stare at other women. It turns out that the wife herself pushes him into the arms of his mistress. Of course, it also happens the other way around, when a man refuses to fulfill his marital duties, and a companion is looking for pleasure, but such options happen much less often.
Step 5
Cheating out of revenge is also common. If one spouse begins to cheat, the other may decide to also try a similar method of rest. So they take revenge for insults, for the inability to get what they want or mutual reproaches. Each act on the side becomes a moment of revenge, which, perhaps, no one will know about, but inner pride will be satisfied.
Step 6
And then there are people who simply cannot live with just one partner. They always need variety, experimentation and unusual sensations. They never stop looking for something new, and the passion for love affairs is in their blood. When meeting such a person, it is already clear that loyalty should not be expected, therefore, in a relationship with him, you will have to close your eyes to many things.
