Ending a relationship is always difficult for both parties. But there are situations when you have to pull yourself together and act as the initiator of a final and irrevocable break. After all, it is very difficult to leave a man with whom you have a lot in common, and you need to break off relations as painlessly as possible.
Instructions
Step 1
Before you announce to a man about a complete and irrevocable break in your relationship, you need to make sure that this is not your momentary whim, but a sound, balanced decision. And, if your relationship has outlived its usefulness, they must end. Until you are sure you want to dump your man, it's best not to start a conversation. In addition, it would be nice to formulate the reasons for the gap both for herself and in order to subsequently, to the question "but why?" do not crumple, but clearly and clearly state what exactly does not suit you.
Step 2
After the decision to break up with a man is made, try not to communicate with him at all for several days, or to reduce your communication to the necessary minimum. Do not show initiative in communication, do not send him gentle sms messages. It is better to try to realize that your relationship is essentially over, then during the conversation you can be calmer and more decisive. Well, for a man, the chill in relationships that has appeared these days will help him slightly distance himself from you.
Step 3
You don't need to tell your man that you have decided to end the relationship by writing or posting on a social network. Firstly, it can be regarded as disrespect, and secondly, most likely, your partner will still want to meet with you and find out the reasons for what happened. So do not stretch this pleasure and immediately tune in to a serious conversation in person.
Step 4
Calmly report that you need to leave, and make it clear that further relationship between you is impossible under any circumstances. Be prepared for questions, insults, claims, or insults from him. But try to keep a low profile. Your departure in itself is a blow to a man's feelings and self-esteem, so there is no need to aggravate the situation by splashing negative emotions towards him.
Step 5
Do not give up hope for a renewal of the relationship and do not try to "just be friends" right now. For the first time after the breakup, any communication will be painful. Therefore, it is better to just stop any contacts for a while and stop the man's attempts to meet with you or start a correspondence. Most men in such a situation quickly understand that your romance is really over. And this allows you to break off relations quickly and irrevocably.
