Problems with loved ones, misunderstanding, condemnation can become a serious problem in a person's life. And I want to escape from this, leave the house and leave in any direction. But it is important to take such a responsible decision slowly in order to do everything right.
Many want to leave home, but not everyone decides on this act. And those who do it often come back, because they do not know how to build their lives differently. After all, it is necessary to think over a lot of questions, for example, where to go, on what means to live and what to do next. If you prepare everything in advance, leaving the family will be easy and no one will worry.
The financial side of the issue
To live separately, you need funds. Money will be required for food, clothing, housing. Calculate how much finance is spent on these expenses per week. Complement all this by paying for a mobile phone, the Internet, buying sweets, magazines and other things that complement the world, make it brighter. When the amount is determined, you need to start looking for work.
You should not drop out of school, as life is long, and a diploma of education will come in handy. Therefore, you need to look for funds, but choose a convenient schedule. Today, many fast food chains invite people to work, you can be a waiter in a cafe or wash floors in any institution. There is a job as a promoter, an interviewer, they generate income, but they can hardly be called stable. It is worth paying attention to freelancing: this is a remote Internet job that can be performed even at night.
When the source of income is found, you need to hold out for 3-4 months and see if it will turn out to be able to live in such a rhythm. Combining study and work will not leave time for personal life, for walks with friends, for parties. But at the same time it will give material freedom. If during this period you realize that you are really coping, that you can live in such a rhythm for a long time, then it is worth further thinking about how to leave home.
Where to go
With your own funds, you can rent a home for yourself. A one-room apartment is enough for one person. You can also choose a cheaper option - a room in a hostel or in an apartment with a hostess. But leaving some people, suffering from their misunderstanding, you may face the demands of a stranger. That is why try to move to a separate space. Be prepared to be asked to pay several months in advance. To cut costs, you can rent a house for two, for example, with a friend or girlfriend.
Moving to a new home will be a holiday for many. But at the same time, it is necessary to notify all household members that you will be living separately. It is not necessary to provide the address, but it is important to say that everything is fine with you, that you are not going out into the street, but in a comfortable place. At the same time, you need to regularly call, say that everything is in order, talk about the successes and features of your life. Such care will not hurt anyone, and you will find yourself in good conditions, and your family will not worry.
