Yesterday everything was fine, but today he announced that he was leaving and it was time for you to leave? What to do in this case, is it worth keeping the man or wish him a good journey.
If a man has decided to part with you, then you do not need to resort to various female tricks to tie him to yourself. Pregnancy and life for the sake of children will not be able to stop him, much less blackmail and threats to commit suicide. He decided that he was leaving - that means he would leave. You don't have to do anything here. Men are like that.
The most important mistake of a woman
When parting, women very often look for a reason in themselves. They literally begin to eat themselves up from the inside, trying to find out the reason for his departure. Should not be doing that. It's just life. This happens, and there is no point in blaming yourself. You will simply lower your self-esteem if you constantly find reasons for your "not ideal" for him. I want to cry? Cry, but a couple of days. If it takes longer, it is close to depression, from which it will be difficult to get out.
If he succumbed to your persuasion
All this is temporary, it has not gone away now, it will go away in a month or six months. What will life be like during this period? Quite often, it's even worse than it was. He has to step over himself, and men do not like to do this. As a result, there are more scandals, hysterics and, as a result, parting. So is it worth making the situation even more complicated?
How to part
No matter how painful and difficult it may be for you, let the man go. Part friends, this will be the best solution. Why do you need additional scandals and quarrels when you can just smile and close the door to the past. Yes, it will be difficult, but much easier than you will swear several times a day and kill your nerve cells.
What to do next
Learn from experience. It doesn't matter if it is negative or positive, and thank fate for this stage of life. Everything is done, everything is for the best, remember that.
Do not withdraw into yourself, communicate with friends, parents, make new acquaintances. This will make it easier for you to get through unpleasant moments in your life. Drive away all negative thoughts, learn positive thinking. It will be tough initially. The main thing is to work on yourself not to allow yourself to think about bad things. After a while, you will see for yourself that everything is not as bad as it seemed initially, and that a positive outlook on life was only beneficial.
Finally, ask yourself just one question, "Will this be important to me in 5-10 years?" Believe me, in a couple of years you will forget about everything, so why torture yourself now? Everything will be fine.
