A "difficult character" in medicine is psychopathy. It is inherited. It is not corrected by upbringing, depends little on the social environment. It manifests itself in an abnormally strong expression of some character traits.
Nature is to blame
A difficult character is not the result of poor upbringing or childhood, as many believe, it is heredity. If the "bad blood" of your great-grandfather-brawler was passed on to your offspring, humble yourself. Breaking and remaking his character is useless. It is better to teach the child some restraint in behavior and develop talent in every possible way. Surely, nature did not cheat him.
Among people with character there are many highly gifted: academician I. P. Pavlov, composer L. Beethoven, writers F. M. Dostoevsky, N. V. Gogol … Descendants are only interested in the creations of geniuses. And the burden of their personal shortcomings is borne by relatives and friends.
It's not fun together
Having a child prodigy is much more pleasant than having a bully, who will turn into a difficult teenager with age, and then an unpleasant type will grow out of him. For example, a notorious brawler, gossip or complainer. Such colleagues will easily discourage the desire to go to work.
The first is ready to stir up a scandal for any reason, even for little things. He has one desire - to scream. In the person of the second, you will find your "best friend". He will be happy to listen to the stories of your family quarrels, impartial statements about colleagues and bosses, he will understand and console. And it will make you an eternal subject of gossip. The third will complain and whine endlessly, causing sympathy. And you meekly work for two, linger in the evenings while the complainant goes about his business.
Defect or diagnosis
In medicine, congenital severe nature is usually called psychopathy. It has certain signs: it changes little during life, it manifests itself in the same way everywhere and in any circumstances. And finally, the psychopath and his entourage constantly overcome life problems.
It is not easy to communicate with such a person: some of his character traits are expressed so strongly that they differ significantly from the norm. For example, extremely timid and shy among colleagues, he can tyrannize his family with constant outbursts of anger and irritation from minor grievances. Or obsessed with his work, ready to sweep away everyone in his path, aggressive, vindictive, prone to crime. The environment suffers from such determination.
Sometimes changes in character are caused by chronic diseases that disrupt the normal functioning of the hormonal system. In this case, adequate treatment, care and understanding of loved ones will help.
