Responsiveness is one of the rare and good qualities of a person. To be responsive means to be empathetic and kind to those around you. This quality does not depend on predispositions and sympathies.
The main side of responsiveness is love for the people around you. Responsiveness is closely related to tact - these two concepts include a sense of edge and measure, which are further observed in the course of a conversation, both in personal relationships and in collective. A kind of a developed sense of the edge, beyond which words and deeds come into play. After which a person may experience resentment, disappointment or grief, perhaps even pain.
Education or natural gift
A responsive and tactful person respects the difference in the interlocutor's age, status, absence or presence of strangers, as well as the place and circumstances for the conversation. To respect, love, feel, empathize, help, be kind to the people around you means to be a sympathetic person. Culture in behavior and deeds is manifested primarily in honest behavior towards one's own duties, in respect and polite attitude towards both one's work colleagues and relatives.
Responsiveness - the ability to timely and correctly notice the interlocutor's reaction to any words and statements, behavior and deeds, in some cases, the ability to apologize for incorrect behavior, word or thought. Apology should not be confused with humiliation, on the contrary, admitting your mistakes is a trait of strong, intelligent and well-mannered people.
Helping others to the detriment of yourself
Sensitivity to problems and the state of a person's soul is a very rare trait that is characteristic only of responsive people. In order to become a responsive person, it is not easy enough not to do anything bad to people, but on the contrary, to help, and not only in those moments when someone asks you, but when you yourself see that a person needs help, but does not ask for her.
Being responsive is a kind of being noble, doing good deeds and not expecting the same in return. To be responsive means to be selfless and not demand rewards for good deeds. Responsiveness is a gift of kind, noble and intelligent people. People who will never ask you an unpleasant question, will not put you in an awkward situation, and will help you get out of a possible unpleasant situation.
Responsive people love those around them for who they are, and do not try to remake them for themselves. Only sympathetic people can provide gratuitous help to people or animals. They put other people's problems above all else, and often such people do not have a family, as they live for others. Not every person is ready to start a family with someone who, at the first call, rushes to help others. Often times, sympathetic people create marriages with similar people. Such couples are called ideal.
