Some women find it difficult to build a personal life, because they do not know how to best present themselves. Difficulties for girls are added by shyness in front of representatives of the opposite sex. There are several ways to combat excessive shyness.
Instructions
Step 1
You may be shy about your lack of self-confidence. Improve your self-esteem. Remember all your positive qualities and appreciate your strengths. Do not be too critical of your own appearance. Even if you don't have an ideal body, look for pluses, not minuses, in it. Try to emphasize your attractive sides in every possible way. This can be done with the right underwear and clothes, a certain style, makeup and hairstyle. Fall in love with your personality and appearance, and it will be much easier for you to communicate with members of the opposite sex. By the way, you can get rid of some of the shortcomings, if they prevent you from relaxing so much. Think about how you can improve your appearance.
Step 2
Practice more with young people to overcome shyness. Don't miss the opportunity to discuss work issues with your male colleague. On the street, asking for directions, give preference to the stronger sex. Talk to a guy at a party or at a party. Chat with your male relatives and their friends. In this way, you will begin to better understand young people and overcome the communication barrier that now stands in front of you.
Step 3
If you like a young man, but you cannot communicate with him without trembling in your voice and buckling knees, do the following: stop idealizing him and putting him above yourself. Appreciate your personality. Think of a man as an ordinary person. Try to see his personality. You shouldn't make the image of a guy too romantic in your imagination, concentrating on beautiful blue eyes, a white-toothed smile or muscles playing under a T-shirt. These are just details. Perhaps, in advanced cases, you should even look for some flaws in the young man so that you are not so scared to talk to him.
Step 4
To overcome shyness in front of a particular man, try to get to know him better. Ask him questions about your personal life, work, travel, hobbies. Understand how he lives. Become friends with a young man. Then there will be no question of any shyness. You will begin to understand this man well and see how best to build relationships with him in the future. It will remove your shyness as if by hand.
Step 5
Realize all your femininity, attractiveness and sexuality. Correct installation is important. Think about how seductive you look in men's eyes. Become a little flirty, mysterious. Use your charm, feminine charm, charm. A beautiful, self-sufficient, intelligent woman cannot be ashamed of herself or ineptly communicate with men, so you need to perceive yourself that way. Know your worth.
