There are people with whom communication is very difficult because of their unrestrained nature. Such people, as a rule, cannot be in a calm mood: they constantly scream and lose their temper.
Instructions
Step 1
Most often, a person, resorting to screaming in a quarrel, feels helpless and the inability to reach mutual understanding with the interlocutor. This is often an expression of fear, misunderstanding and powerlessness. In any case, we have to agree that the screaming person is most likely uncomfortable and he is trying with all his might to change this. Without noticing at the same time, which makes communication itself impossible with its cry.
Step 2
Everyone has their own reasons for fear. You can scream because it’s scary to be alone and to lose your only loved one. This is exactly what little children do, because for them it is really a tragedy: they will not survive alone in the big world. And what makes you constantly switch to the cry of an adult self-sufficient person?
Step 3
The reasons that lie on the surface may look beautiful and fully justify it, but if you look deeper, it often turns out that everything is not so great. A constant cry speaks of moodiness, irritability, incontinence. And in the event that the screaming person seeks to transfer the blame to the interlocutor, declaring that he was pissed off, this indicates an unwillingness to change and be responsible for his actions. It is unlikely that someone will allow himself to lose his temper so much, for example, alone with five hooligans in a dark alley, but with subordinates at work, many try to present themselves as an unhappy victim of provocations.
Step 4
Constant screaming also means that the person has already felt his impunity. They did not refuse to communicate and cooperate with him after the first and second, and maybe the third incident, and, most likely, he received from a person frightened by a surge of emotions that he could not achieve without screaming. Although such people claim that they cannot contain themselves, most often this is not true. For those who really cannot control themselves, there are sedatives, and these people do not come into contact with healthy ones. The rest use their invented helplessness in order to continue to receive whatever they want and at the same time accuse the interlocutors of provocations and lost kilometers of nerves.
Step 5
Most often, a person understands perfectly well that screaming will not achieve anything, and therefore does not scream in situations where it is really meaningless. The victims of his bad character are either subordinates at work or family members.
