In fairy tales familiar from childhood, a beautiful princess, languishing in the tower, is waiting for her prince. Paradoxically, the situation is the same in everyday life. Millions of women are waiting for their love day after day. But what if she doesn't come?
Necessary
- - personal care;
- - interior renovation;
- - your portrait with a man;
- - films about love.
Instructions
Step 1
All your girlfriends are already married, have kids, and you are content with infrequent dates? And your relatives, in despair, hint that you have a "celibacy crown"? Vigorously drive away these oppressive thoughts and analyze the situation. In most cases, problems in personal life are subconsciously provoked by the person himself.
Step 2
Do a little test. Write what love is, what women do you think men love. If your answer to the first question contains the words "suffering", "sacrifice", "pain" and other negative concepts, then you must radically change your worldview. If you really want to set yourself up for love, then take the following definition as a basis. “Love is the most beautiful and wonderful feeling that brings all-encompassing happiness every day. And I deserve it. " Moreover, the last phrase is extremely important in your case.
Step 3
Now carefully study your answer to the question "What kind of women do men like?" Having indicated certain qualities that a woman who has achieved success in her personal life possesses, write next to them in what proportions these qualities are present in you. Often single ladies have a low level of self-esteem, it seems to them that they do not have the necessary character traits to please men. If you give yourself low scores on most indicators, then start working on yourself.
Step 4
Take your time with radical transformations. The notorious 90 * 60 * 90 absolutely do not guarantee success in your personal life. Remember the main thing: if you can love yourself, then others will love you. Take the time to take care of yourself. Try to look attractive at home, at work, and when visiting a friend. If you look in the mirror with genuine admiration, then others will soon begin to admire you. This will strengthen your belief in yourself that you truly deserve love.
Step 5
Now turn to your interior. Delete all images of sad, single women (if any). Photos, where you are alone, just as carefully put into the album. If you are good at drawing, then portray yourself next to a beautiful man. It is advisable not to paint his face, because your subconscious mind can program itself for a certain type of men, and you will miss your chosen one. If you don't know how to draw, then order your portrait, where you are dancing with a man in a chic dress. Let him look you in the eyes in the portrait, and turn his back to the audience.
Step 6
Add colors and good mood to the interior. Get rid of old and unnecessary things. Your home should be attuned to a new, brighter future, just as you are. Hang a colorful sign "I am the most charming and attractive" over the mirror. Post any optimistic statements you like throughout your apartment.
Step 7
Watch movies about love with a happy ending more often. Read works where love overcomes all obstacles, and the characters live happily ever after. You say, "It never happens in life." But the peculiarity of the subconscious is that it does not distinguish true information from false. Constantly duplicating the same thoughts, it sends impulses to consciousness aimed at realizing these thoughts. If love seems to you to be something unreal, then for your subconsciousness nothing is impossible.
