Uncertainty and fear of communicating with a man not only spoils a woman's mood, but also negatively affects her personal life. Overcoming this inconvenience and opening up is not an easy task, but by following our advice, you should be able to solve this problem.
Instructions
Step 1
First, think about what exactly scares you and makes you close in front of men: are you afraid of being in an unfavorable light, looking stupid, being offended? But imagine that even if in the worst case scenario it happens, you can just leave and stop communicating with these people. But the point is, that won't happen. It is just tightness and insecurity that will make you stupid. And remember that fear is always stronger than what you are afraid of.
Step 2
Imagine various meetings with men and acquaintances in your head. Model how you will behave, what you say, what answer to this or that question. This is very helpful, as living the situation destroys its significance and fear.
Step 3
Communication on the Internet can become a certain school for you at first. You will not see the interlocutor, and this will somewhat liberate you.
Step 4
Do not look away if you meet them with a man's gaze somewhere in transport or on the street. Do not be afraid to look at representatives of the opposite sex for more than one second, believe me, they will not eat you, but light flirting can give you a good mood.
Step 5
Smile. Firstly, with such a simple sign you will show the interlocutor that you are positively disposed towards him, and secondly, you yourself will gradually become imbued with confidence and calmness. As the saying goes, "a smile will brighten everyone."
Step 6
Imagine that you are not hanging out with a great guy, but with a colleague, old friend, or relative. You will see how unnecessary emotions and excitement leave you and stop interfering with pleasant, open communication.
Step 7
Choose common topics of conversation. Sports, weather, travel, favorite food - all this is easy to talk about, and, moreover, such unobtrusive communication can bring two people closer.
Step 8
Don't jabber. Many girls, in excitement, begin to talk a lot and quickly, while blushing and panting. Sometimes it is better to remain silent than to utter incomprehensible sentences, confusing others.
Step 9
A compliment to a man is always very flattering and pleasant. Saying that this sweater suits him very much, you will add more trust and interest to the atmosphere of communication.
Step 10
And, most importantly, more practice. To learn to be open and confident with men, you need to meet every day with a variety of members of the opposite sex, be it a colleague or a fan. Do not avoid large companies with unfamiliar guys, because thanks to this, you will soon be able to overcome yourself and become free.
