Some personal problems can arise from a person's dislike of themselves. You can accept your own personality and improve your attitude towards yourself if you do some work on yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Get rid of the bad habit of criticizing yourself. You need to strive for perfection only when you have faith in it. But you probably understand that there are no perfect people. Therefore, sometimes you should allow yourself to commit rash acts and forgive yourself some mistakes. Once you become more forgiving about your own actions, you will take the first step towards loving yourself.
Step 2
Wake up the child inside you. Believe me, you can be honest, kind and open towards yourself. It is such an individual who is more likely to be inclined to self-love. To make changes in your own personality, give free rein to your positive emotions, pay more attention to the process, you do not need to focus solely on the result. Listen to your emotions and feelings more often.
Step 3
Trust yourself more. If you do not believe in your own strengths and capabilities, you will not have inner harmony. In order for it to settle in your soul, you need to remember all your victories, to realize that you are able to cope with all the troubles. Realize that it is you who are responsible for your life. All the good that is present in it is your merit. This can already be considered a reason for self-confidence.
Step 4
Accept your so-called flaws and reconsider your attitude towards them. Remember, everything is relative. Think about why you decided to classify some of your character traits as negative. Those traits of your personality that you consider weak can be used to the advantage in a certain situation. Therefore, it is important not to exterminate shortcomings in oneself, but to learn how to present them correctly.
Step 5
Think about what prevents you from loving yourself. Maybe it's a sense of guilt. First, figure out whether a misconduct really takes place, or such an opinion was imposed on you in due time. Then let go of the situation, draw conclusions for the future and close the topic. There is no need to harass yourself and want to fix what you have done. The past cannot be returned, live in the present.
Step 6
Decide on your position in life. Make a conscious choice: either to continue to exist in conditions of internal conflict, or to allow yourself to love and appreciate yourself, develop and enjoy life. If you prefer the second option, then you will find the strength and patience to walk the path to a state of self-acceptance and self-satisfaction.
