In friendship, understanding, support, the ability to empathize and the ability to share joy with a person are important. To maintain friendly relations, it is necessary to see a loved one from time to time. But what if this person takes up most of your living space?
Instructions
Step 1
If a friend complains about a bitter fate and bad luck, sympathize, try to calm her down. If she asks you for advice, give it to her. But having felt the disposition, she, intentionally or without noticing it, may resort to your vest more and more often. Before taking drastic action, carefully observe her behavior the next time you wipe away her tears.
Step 2
If she listens to your advice, but still acts in her own way, and each of your meetings follows the same scenario, explain to her that you also have a personal life. She nods her head in understanding, but the next day she sits in your kitchen again? Listen with a chill as you go about your business. Maybe she will call you an insensitive person, thereby making an attempt to attract your attention, or maybe she will slowly sneak out the door - one way or another, she will leave.
Step 3
Annoying girlfriends are most likely just very lonely people, not devoid of selfishness. To one degree or another, it is present in every person. To limit communication with a sticky friend, it is not a sin to remember your own piece of selfishness - self-love. If visits or endless phone calls have become a nightmare for you, learn to say a firm "no" to them. Do not try to avoid meetings or hide at a party, in a movie, or at home. Just refuse.
Step 4
Annoying people cannot do without the support and approval of the other person. As a rule, they feel comfortable with people with a gentle disposition, who “do not quit in difficult times” and are ready to open their doors at any time of the day. It turns out that the victims are not the "poor sheep", but those who take them under their wing. If you feel uncomfortable with this "friendship" relationship, become boring and uninteresting to her. And then she will already feel discomfort and quickly retreat in search of a new vest.
