Some people are so tactless and intrusive that he wants them to run away. To skillfully get rid of the interlocutor who has gone too far, you need to adopt several methods for different occasions.
Avoid communication
If you know in advance about an individual that communication with him can become unbearable, try to avoid him. Do not go into rapprochement with this person, do not maintain a conversation. Answer in monosyllables. Don't be afraid to sound impolite. You are not overstepping any boundaries of decency. Remember, you have the right to value your own time and choose who you communicate with.
If the conversation with the intrusive person has already begun and is slightly delayed, find an excuse to leave. Refer to an urgent matter. Just do not wait for permission from the interlocutor, leave immediately. Sometimes tactless people can drive you crazy with one process of goodbye.
Seize the initiative
Don't let the annoying person take over the conversation. Interrupt the thread of his endless discourse with constant questions, sometimes even on other topics. Try to knock the individual off course to make the conversation shorter.
Cultivate the annoying person by interrupting and sharing personal experiences and observations on the issue. Show a keen interest in the conversation, but don't let the bore talk. Maybe you will be able to surpass him, and the annoying person will start looking for a new victim.
Tire the other person by talking quickly and a lot, while gesturing abundantly. If your interlocutor is used to speaking slowly, following his thoughts slowly and describing in detail all the little things of the story, you need to jump from one subject of discussion to another and literally chatter. The interlocutor will feel uncomfortable and leave.
If, on the contrary, your opponent speaks quickly and energetically, you need to communicate slowly, rolling your eyes thoughtfully and describing an event at length. This technique requires the manifestation of some acting skills. But if you are successful in communication and know how to adapt to the interlocutor, you will be able to do the opposite, so as not to dispose the individual for a long conversation.
Ask uncomfortable questions. Do not indulge the bore and listen to his stories. Better to go to provocative questions about something completely personal or discuss a topic that is painful for the individual. Of course, the method is not entirely humane, but you decide when to use it and whether to adopt it.
Get distracted
You don't have to listen to what the unpleasant person says. If, because of your politeness, you can neither escape nor interrupt the conversation, think about something of your own. First, you will be much more pleasant in the company of an annoying person if you immerse yourself in your own thoughts. Secondly, even a tactless person can notice that you are not interested and leave you alone.
