Friendship is a wonderful feeling, without which life is simply impossible. It is happiness to have friends who will come to the rescue in difficult times and with whom you can meet and chat, share your women's secrets and just chat. But, unfortunately, there is this type of "girlfriends" who, having made friends with you, begin to abuse your good attitude and try to take too much place in your life.
Instructions
Step 1
Some friends perceive friendship as acquiring a kind of license for your personal time and space. It doesn't cost such a person anything to call or appear at your home at any time of the day or night, dumping on you a bunch of his problems, including material ones. Your timid objections and attempts to call for respect at least to your sleep or your personal space will lead nowhere. Such people are able to understand only the firm: "No!" No matter how you sympathize with her and no matter how gentle your character is, you just need to learn how to pronounce the words of refusal. Try it, and do not hesitate - such people do not understand other words.
Step 2
There are friends - energy vampires. She will never show up in your home with good news. When she comes, she will complain all about the same boss or husband for whom she works, or with whom she has lived for more than a dozen years. After she leaves, you feel like a squeezed lemon. Someday you will get tired of worrying and giving the same advice that no one is going to follow. Just ask such a friend never to discuss these topics with you in an ultimatum. After all, your nerves and peace of mind are not endless. If she stops seeing you as a grateful listener and donor, her visits will stop by themselves.
Step 3
But there are also friends who, on the contrary, are too interested in your life. At first it is flattering, but over time, such impudence can also get bored. If a person does not have his personal life, he involuntarily lives the life of other people. This is also not normal, because such information about you can at any time become the subject of discussion in other companies. Keep your distance and gradually you will lose the interest of such a "friend".
Step 4
A true friend who respects and loves you will never abuse your friendship. Therefore, everyone who is too annoying, care, first of all, about themselves. These are selfish people who, by and large, do not care about your feelings. Know how to cut off such people. You shouldn't stand on ceremony with them. You can tell about your feelings in plain text. If the person truly values your friendship and wants to keep it, they will understand your displeasure and rethink their attitude. If this does not happen, such a friend will simply disappear from your life, and you should not regret her.
