Some women in their lives are faced with obsessive girlfriends. They not only consume time, but still do not understand hints, spoil relationships with others with their tactless remarks and complicate life.
Instructions
Step 1
When the endurance comes to an end and you have a desire to get rid of such a friend, think about what made you endure before. After all, obsessive people do not "stick" to you overnight. Usually, the behavior of the "victim" itself provokes importunity, for example, the inability to say "no", the desire to feel significant and knowledgeable, able to help. But at some point you get very tired of this communication mode. And that's when you need to understand why you encouraged this behavior. If you can't say no, you need to work on self-esteem. If you want to feel like a significant person, communicate more with friends who are not prone to parasitism and obsession. As a last resort, there are always charitable events from which you will get much more moral satisfaction than from communicating with annoying people.
Step 2
Learn and apply the sleepy egoist technique. You should become passive in conversation, phlegmatic and, most importantly, almost unresponsive to the statements of a clingy friend. Talk only about yourself, your problems and expectations. Think over the dialogues in advance, listen to your friend's remarks only to the middle, interrupt, call her by another name, become an unbearable interlocutor. Tell her how your alleged obsessive friend got you and ask for advice on how to get rid of. This is a very transparent hint and will most likely work. If it does not help, you will have to involve more serious equipment.
Step 3
In difficult cases, use the die-hard fanatic technique. Pretend that you are carried away by Protestant or sectarian teachings and with every conversation tell your friend that she will burn in hell for her actions. This is a great way to ruin a relationship, from the position of spiritual authority, you can afford the most ruthless criticism. Most likely, it will not last long. One day she will get tired of listening to morality, and she will simply disappear from your life, and you will breathe a sigh of relief.
