Some of the fair sex unwittingly push young people away from themselves. The reason may be lack of softness and femininity. A strong, successful woman can take care of herself and build a career. However, those who go overboard with severity and independence can condemn themselves to loneliness.
Instructions
Step 1
Start with a sincere desire to change. Understand that it will be easier for you to build relationships with others and perceive life circumstances when you remove excessive assertiveness, severity and toughness from your character.
Step 2
Relieve yourself of some of the responsibility. Perhaps you take too much on yourself, strive to control all the processes that occur in your life, and the lack of softness in your character is a consequence of your position. Try to shift some of the assignments to other members of your family or colleagues, and you will see that the world will not collapse, and the business will not fail without your direct participation in everything.
Step 3
Be kind to people. Let sarcasm and cynicism be a thing of the past. Instead of cruel jokes and injections to your acquaintances, compliment them. Think about the feelings of others and try not to hurt their feelings. You should also treat yourself gently and with love. Get out of the habit of criticizing your own mistakes and shortcomings too much.
Step 4
Find an example of softness and femininity for yourself. It can be a girl you know or a movie star, the main thing is that she is the embodiment of qualities that you feel lacking in. Observe the example and try to adopt certain traits, habits, gaze, smile, words and behavior. It is important to understand the very essence and philosophy of true women.
Step 5
Communicate more with women. Perhaps the lack of softness is a consequence of working in a male team or upbringing in an atmosphere of absolute rigor. Meet with your friends more often, start conversations on classic female topics.
Step 6
Feel free to express your own emotions. You should not consider an impulse to hug a person or say an affectionate word to him as a manifestation of weakness. Also, there is nothing wrong with crying over a sad book or sentimental movie.
Step 7
Ask for help from other people, especially from the stronger sex. Sometimes it's so nice to seem like a weak woman, feel it. Moreover, a situation may arise in which you really need male strength. So take a moment and ask for her.
Step 8
Conduct an audit of your wardrobe. Remember that external changes help bring about internal metamorphosis. So keep more feminine outfits and jewelry in your closet.
