A person cannot exist outside of society. He is constantly in contact with a wide variety of people, be it in an educational institution, at work, when visiting various social and cultural institutions, etc. What kind of people is it interesting to communicate with?
What should be the interlocutor
The interlocutor must be smart, erudite. A characteristic feature of our time is virtual communication on the Internet. But not all of the interlocutors, both real and virtual, arouse interest, a desire to maintain a conversation, to conduct discussions on various topics. I want to say goodbye to some of them as soon as possible.
It is very important that the person you communicate with is smart, versatile educated, intelligent. With such an interlocutor, you can talk on many topics, discuss a variety of questions with him and get answers to them. Communication with smart people is beneficial, stimulates the desire to learn something new, expand your horizons. In the end, it just delivers positive emotions, and sometimes even helps to cope with difficult situations.
The proverb "With a clever to talk - that honey is drunk" is very eloquent. Its analogues exist in some other languages as well.
Some people argue that in the age of the Internet, when any information can be obtained in a matter of seconds, intelligence and erudition are no longer as important as before. But this can hardly be considered correct. After all, a person must develop, raise his intellectual level.
Good manners, tact when dealing with people
But it is equally important that the interlocutor observes the rules of etiquette and good manners. After all, even a person with truly encyclopedic knowledge will be unpleasant in communication if he is poorly educated, behaves cheekily or arrogantly flaunts his education, exposing it. Or (which is not much better) he is ready to literally read lectures to everyone he meets, pouring down streams of information on them and not even asking the question: do the interlocutors want this
It will hardly be interesting to communicate with such a person, because he is trying to put himself above others.
But if the interlocutor behaves modestly, restrained, refrains from a categorical tone, listens carefully to opponents, skillfully chooses a topic for conversation (at the same time, without touching on questions that are obscure or unpleasant for those present), his company will be pleasant and interesting.
Communication with a person who has similar views, habits, hobbies, and tastes will also arouse undeniable interest. As the saying goes, "like is drawn to like." Of course, one must take into account that all people are different, therefore the very concept of "an interesting person" is very subjective.
