We are so arranged that not every person can be allowed into their personal space. Most people understand this because themselves are the same. But there are such individuals who strive to break the distance and impose on you as good friends or boyfriends. So how can you get rid of the obsessive person?
Instructions
Step 1
First, evaluate your behavior. Maybe you are not able to refuse stuck and make a decision that is beneficial to you? Or are you ready to help and warm everyone you meet, just not to offend anyone? Then you have a direct road to personal growth training in order to learn how to defend your interests.
Step 2
In the meantime, as you grow as a person, here are some powerful tricks for getting rid of intrusive people. First, use their methods. Does your colleague come to you every day for a minute and sit for hours? Do the same while she is busy with a serious report or in a hurry. And do not listen to any excuses - sit and that's it! Or, on her next visit, try to borrow money or ask to run to the store for you. You can also try playing a star. Behave accordingly - arrogant, condescending, and arrogant. Most likely, very soon the obsessive colleague will find another object for communication.
Step 3
If you are a girl, you are probably familiar with the situation when you like one man, and another, very intrusive type is courting you. Quickly get rid of him in your interests, otherwise the object of adoration will think that you are busy. Act boldly and decisively. For starters, try not to look at him while you are talking. This technique is very effective and quickly scares away. Or, on the contrary, with surprise “devour” it with your eyes. This technique will not only confuse the clingy boyfriend, but also scare. If he invited you to a restaurant, order as many expensive dishes as possible and try to eat everything. Pretend to be active. Men do not like all this and he will most likely quickly disappear over the horizon.
Step 4
However, if you are free, and all these methods do not work and you cannot scare off an obsessive admirer, take a closer look at him - maybe he is your destiny. But if your husband is waiting for you at home, and the boyfriend is still persistent, then try another method: tell him more about your husband - how smart, handsome and wonderful he is. If the obsessive is married, ask him about the family. From this he will also not be thrilled. Or try to talk to him on complex and abstruse topics - the interlocutor will either get bored, or he will get carried away and forget what he wanted from you at all.
Step 5
Thus, we see that getting rid of an obsessive person is not so difficult, you just need a little patience and courage to behave in a way that is not typical for you. But the free time you can devote to what really brings you joy.
