It is unlikely that there is at least one person who does not know what betrayal is. It is always difficult to get over it, especially if it is committed by a loved one, for example, a best friend.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not try to immediately draw any conclusions about the current situation. Sometimes it is better to wait a little while the pain, anger and resentment pass in order to soberly assess the act of a friend. Perhaps she did not want to betray you, but it happened completely by accident. Therefore, you should not draw conclusions until you know the exact reasons for this behavior. Do not try to find out something from a third person. The best option is to talk to the person who betrayed you.
Step 2
Think about the question: "Did you ever have such a best friend?" Maybe the friendship was fake or for profit? If this is so, then why feel sorry and worry? Just waste time on someone whose absence from your life will not negatively affect it. Remember how she treated you all the time before the quarrel, how she behaved. Realistically evaluate her actions, do not take into account that you considered her best friend. Then you can definitely understand what kind of person she is. And if it becomes clear that all friendship was a complete mistake, then say goodbye to it and forget it forever.
Step 3
But if, with an adequate assessment, it became clear that this is really your best friend, and you do not want to lose her, then there is only one way out - to make peace. Different things happen in life, but these different things do not always bring positive emotions and joy. Still, friends, especially the best ones, are not scattered around. And if your friend understands this, then she will certainly want to apologize and make peace. Give her a chance, do not lose everything that has bound you for a long time, because everyone has the right to make mistakes. And you can always try to correct this mistake.
Step 4
There are no two identical betrayals, tk. each person is different. And what can help one person may well harm another. Therefore, it is up to you and your best friend to continue to be friends or not.
