Betrayal is a violation of oaths of allegiance, causing harm to a person, taking advantage of his trust. It also includes violation of marital fidelity, meanness done to a friend. You can refer this concept only to the closest people whom you have infinitely trusted and in whom you have always believed. A stranger can never betray. Betrayal occurs, as a rule, at a completely unexpected moment, and therefore the pain from it is especially strong.
Instructions
Step 1
If this happened, talking about not worrying is pointless, because you will worry anyway and your pain will be strong. Just try not to prolong this period. If you get depressed and feel sorry for yourself, it can take a long time. Suffer a little, and then ask yourself a simple question that will not start with the words "Why?" and “Why?”, but from the words “Why?”.
Step 2
If you think carefully, it turns out that betrayal is secondary. If it were not for the good that you gave to the traitor - love, friendship, trust, then this person would not have been able to betray you. Tell yourself that you simply did not recognize the traitor and are not good at understanding people. Say thank you to fate for teaching you a lesson and warning you for next time. Think that you have become stronger and wiser.
Step 3
Do not hope that the person who betrayed you will wake up a conscience and he will sincerely repent, it simply does not exist and it will not be able to wake up. In any case, the betrayal is committed deliberately. If this person is not a complete idiot, then he perfectly understands that this is meanness, but, for sure, he finds an excuse for it. He will act in the same way and then, looking for more and more reasons for his meanness. Take this into account, and if it does not work out at all, stop communicating with him, no longer step on this rake and stay away from him.
Step 4
But your wisdom is that from now on, not to classify all other people as potential traitors. Starting communication with a person, believe him unconditionally, but do not make loyal and flattering friends for yourself, do not surround yourself with sycophants, acquire immunity to delight and admiration for your person. Trusting your friends, partners or close people, you, of course, may once again face some dirty trick, but this is better than living the rest of your life without trusting anyone.
Step 5
A new acquaintance who is going to deceive trust will take openness for simplicity and commit betrayal or deception almost immediately, so you can survive it painlessly, just like getting rid of such a "friend" in time. Here is such a bitter, but useful lesson, you can learn from the fact that a loved one betrayed you.
