This question, which worries every adult, with a careful approach, breaks down into two components: "how to want what you have?" and "how to have what you want?" Hence, there are two problematic situations: we do not value what surrounds us now, and we want something more, but we do not know how to achieve it. It would be great if these situations coincided with each other! But each of them must be dealt with separately, so that later, adding both solutions together, answer the main question: "Still, how to want what you have and have what you want?"
Instructions
Step 1
Why don't we want what we have? Why did we at some point stop appreciating what surrounds us? It can be difficult for a person to answer these questions immediately, without serious reflection. However, even though the answer is actually simple, it will take some time to accept it. And the answer is as follows. Sometimes we do not value what we have, because the values that we achieved have ceased to be important to us, and we received all this. Over time, it turns out that status work in itself does not mean spiritual satisfaction, and money alone does not bring happiness. And at the moment of this rethinking, reassessment of one's own priorities, it is time to seriously think about another issue.
Step 2
What do we really want? With the outward simplicity and stereotyped nature of this question, it is much more difficult to answer it than any other. After all, answering it, you need to be as honest with yourself as possible, and even this honesty requires some inner work so that the received answers are as sincere as possible. Perhaps this will be somewhat helped by the fact that people who no longer need to think about material well-being and financial issues are asking such a question. In the end, a moment comes when these matters are settled, but the soul does not feel satisfaction. Therefore, there is no longer any point in deceiving yourself, and you can free yourself from the burden of the need to buy material things for the sake of happiness, looking for other, deeper answers to this question.
Step 3
Talents are hidden in a person from birth. The world is arranged in such a way that each person, fulfilling himself, playing his own role, makes it better due to his abilities. This happens as if by itself, the main thing is to understand and accept your nature and begin to act in accordance with it. And then the question: “How to have what you want?” Will cease to worry us, since wonderful opportunities and previously invisible roads will open before us to achieve real goals.
