Betrayal of your own children is very painful. After all, they are the closest, dearest. But as often happens, the most severe pain is caused by those whom a person considered his support and hope.
Children are part of the soul. It is unlikely that there is someone closer and dearer. How to forgive the betrayal of children and survive the resentment? This is a difficult and difficult situation. There are no universal methods here, since life situations are different. And each has its own pain. However, one thing is clear that it is necessary to get rid of the accumulated resentment in the soul, since it harms and corrodes from the inside. To get over the situation, you need to adhere to a certain plan of action.
Analysis
Analyze your relationship with your children. Try to do it objectively, do not fall into accusations. This will not help to get to the bottom of the truth. Perhaps you will find answers to many questions in the past.
Communication
Communication is the key that allows you to find a compromise and answers to many questions. Do not withdraw into yourself, keep in touch with children. After what happened, communication will be difficult, but this is the only way to find out the true cause of the situation.
Working with a psychologist
This will help to objectively look at the situation from the outside. The specialist will help you see your mistakes in relationships with children and will prescribe a course of psychological rehabilitation.
Try to perceive the current situation as a test sent to you from above. Take a certain experience out of him and do not denigrate the soul with resentment and anger.
