The art of loving and being close has to be learned throughout the entire time, as long as feelings last. When parting, there is less time to think about your actions and words. Emotions overwhelm, resentment does not give a sane look at the situation. Parting with a person without becoming enemies for the rest of their lives is the lot of the strong.
Take time for a serious conversation. A quick breakup will leave you no chance of a good relationship. Breaking up a relationship by text message, phone call or email will leave you with a lot of questions. For the conversation, plan and schedule a meeting in neutral territory with no shared memories. Everything in the past - away from resentment When the decision to break up has already been made, you should not waste time on sorting out the relationship. Do not express resentments and claims to each other. Forgive everything that you could not forgive until now. Everything is in the past, this person now has nothing to do with you. Ask for forgiveness for your actions and words that may have caused your previous quarrels. Be able to forgive and thank for all the good things that happened while you were together. Sincerely wish happiness and love to the one who was dear to you. If the initiative to part with a loved one comes from you, it is important to get rid of the feeling of guilt for this act. Psychologists advise doing charity work and helping those who really need it. Leaving - do not give up hope The first time, after parting, try not to answer calls and messages. It is possible that the cooling of feelings happened only on one side, and your friendly responses and a friendly tone may give rise to hope for a renewal of the relationship. Do not fall for manipulation and make it clear that the decision to break up is final. If possible, avoid going to mutual friends and events where you might bump into each other. It takes time to get used to the fact that everyone now has their own personal life, independent of each other. When breaking up, don't let your emotions get the better of your mind. Do not tell the person that you are parting from the fact that he is to blame for all your problems. Let the reason be a banal difference in views.
