Every day a person is forced to maintain relationships with different people, but not everyone is able to find a common language. There are times when it is simply impossible to refuse communication, and you need to be able to think “on the same wavelength”. People can radically differ in outlook on life, behavior and character, and therefore it makes sense to learn to think differently.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are in the company of a humorist, forget about your serious nature and practice wit. Cheerful and outgoing people value humor and long laughter, even when it is not very appropriate. Such jokers cannot sit for an hour without an interesting story or anecdotes, although not all of them turn out to be successful and funny. Feel free to experiment in developing your wit and communication skills. Do not be embarrassed if everything does not work out right away. Those who love to make fun of everyone and everything quickly switch to new jokes and look for new reasons to talk and laugh. Learn an easy attitude towards life and an ineradicable joy. Communicate actively and pay attention to the little things. As you know, much is in the details.
Step 2
If your friend is constantly calm and calm, you can start meditating with him and not strain about topics of conversation. Such people are not prone to violent emotions and harsh criticism. They love the measured pace of the conversation and the detailed analysis of the situation. Find out about the interests of your interlocutor, listen carefully and ask leading questions. Express your position in detail on an interesting topic for you, and you will be known as a well-mannered person. If, on top of that, you provide a minor service, you will be perceived as a reliable person with whom it is pleasant to communicate and deal with. Mutual understanding in this circle will be provided to you. Be cool.
Step 3
When dealing with an energetic person whose emotions are overwhelming, and the mood changes seven times a day, be always on the alert. Temperamental people tend to wind up with sex, and they are able to make a real scandal out of the blue. Do not take the unrestrained stream of thoughts seriously, otherwise you will "not leave a wet spot." React to scandalous statements with humor or indifferently switch the conversation into a new direction. The interlocutor, not seeing emotions, will direct his aggression to another unfortunate person. Do not hold evil on such individuals. At least, they quickly forgive themselves for a sudden change in mood. Prepare in advance a list of possible topics for discussion and set the direction for the conversation. In the future, you will only need to periodically nod and agree. Temperamental people have a strong need to express all their thoughts and pour out the accumulated emotions. They are not particularly interested in someone else's opinion. Learn expressive demeanor and develop the ability to defend your point of view. Take on the temperament.
Step 4
With creative people, forget about templates and primitive conversations about the weather. Creative people love a non-standard approach and appreciate an original way of thinking. Feel free to express your opinions, suggest ideas for joint projects.
Be sure that you will not be judged anyway. Develop skills for different behaviors. Over time, getting used to this or that role, you will be able to better understand the nature and type of thinking of others. Through observation and creativity, you can learn to think like everyone else. Start thinking creatively.
