Dependence on other people's opinions and other people's gossip is a sign of self-doubt. Fear of not being like everyone else. Is it necessary? It's time to accept yourself, love yourself and build your best life, the one you dream of!
We often face situations when people with individual character, taste and temperament "push" them or change them in order to be like their close environment, to join the company. To have a good rest, relaxation and enjoyment, do you have to think about how other people will react? What will they say, "like" or not?
For them, likes / dislikes, comments and reposts are of great importance. Many began to smile, say, do something not for their own pleasure, but to show, they say, "Everything is cool with me, I am rich, happy, in love, I have everything, I am like you!" As a rule, such a person then removes the mask of "happiness", sighs heavily and goes on to go about his business, not telling or showing anyone about them. And some (the strangest, according to some opinions) can alienate good people from themselves, just because they may not get a beautiful photo or friends will not understand. Why is all this being done? In order not to be judged by others? If there are real friends and understanding, adequate people next to you, they will understand and accept you for who you are.
An abstract example: one girl is a music lover, but she loves pop music and hip-hop more, and such that she rocked and wanted to move and move. She feels good about it, she completely relaxes and moves as she wants. On one birthday of her friend, they had a good rest with a large company and, naturally, came off to the general music. Almost all of them wrote stories on Instagram, absolutely not caring about anything. A few days later, when she and her boyfriend met with the best friend of the family, she received a condemning look with the words: “I was amazed when I saw all this. What are you listening to, what are you doing? You seem to be 16 years old, what is it? (man listens to rock). What's wrong with listening to what she likes? Walking with friends who suit her and she is good with them? Why should we adapt to people just so that they do not judge us, again, in their opinion. Friends are support, not criticism of everything that they themselves do not like.
Most likely, the main reason is self-doubt and, as a result, a craving for imaginary authorities. A person is looking for this or that approval. But in fact, he does not need this approval. An individual with his opinion, decision and his own actions is a person. The person will be loved, respected, afraid and proud.
So, let's finally get rid of the addiction of opinions and start living the way we ourselves want it. Work where we want, relax as we want, make friends / live / meet with whoever we want, etc. Be individuals, be individuals!
