Despite all the contradictions, the female and male characters complement each other perfectly. However, it is not uncommon for a man to try his best to avoid marriage, while a woman is interested in starting a family. That is why it is important to be based on psychology and not on assumptions in order to end up with a happy union instead of a war of the sexes.
The opinion that in men love is far from being in the first place is far from reality. Let a strong part of the planet's population express emotions rather restrainedly, but closeness does not mean unwillingness to find a loving life partner.
Attraction of opposites
Although romance is not considered vital by most men. Even if the chosen one does not present flowers and does not give presents, this does not mean cooling in his feelings. After busy working days, the head of the family needs a quiet marina to rest. He dreams of finding such a place at home.
Let the husband not notice a spectacular new thing or a beautiful hairstyle: a man rarely pays attention to details, because his attention is paid to the whole object. He seeks to see the chosen one always in a good mood, radiating peace and happiness. An annoyed spouse is perceived as an inability to provide a woman with a comfortable life.
The demeanor with a woman in the family is laid in the relationship with the mother. If the parent adored her son and did not use unnecessary pressure in his upbringing, then the man treats his wife with respect. With a far from ideal relationship with his mother, he is constantly dissatisfied with his wife.
However, at the beginning of the candy-bouquet period, it is important for a girl to understand what is the actual attitude of the chosen one towards her. There are several signs of a man's crush:
- he always finds a way to communicate: if he can't see each other, he calls or writes;
- in a girl he notices only positive features;
- does not shy away from living together, is ready for it;
- protects from the whole world;
- seeks to spend as much time together as possible;
- requires reciprocal attention to oneself, reciprocity.
Know, not assume
A man projects feelings into gestures. An open pose will help to determine love, if the legs are crossed, and the hands are in the pockets, during the conversation the chosen one constantly sways the tip of the nose, fiddles with the earlobe or covers his mouth with his hand, then his feelings are most likely shallow.
Let the character of each be individual, then almost every man wants to feel like a leader in a relationship with a woman. Therefore, it makes no sense to take on everything and dictate conditions. It makes no sense to once again mention who the leader is in the pair, even if it is not a man.
The stronger sex values its consistency highly. Therefore, even the most enamored examples of masculinity do not stay long with the ladies who criticize him. Laconic words should not be regarded as neglect, just a man always strives to be at his best. Dry facts are important to him, and not an excess of emotions that waste energy.
The stronger sex solves problems by carefully analyzing each step. He scrolls through all the plans for resolving a difficult situation in his head, and such behavior does not at all mean the desire to leave home. The man will start the conversation himself when he is ready, so it is better not to disturb him ahead of time.
The right solution also helps to find sitting for hours with a newspaper in hand, switching TV channels while completely ignoring what is seen on the screen, even playing cards with friends.
The man does not understand the hints. He only responds to specific proposals. The stronger sex cannot predict by the voice and intonation of desire, therefore it is necessary to express your wishes clearly.
Striving for care and love, the baby sits inside even the most powerful and brutal alpha males. If in childhood such an attitude is not received enough, then such a desire increases several times. In this case, it is necessary to add warmth and maternal care to a trusting relationship. It is important not to overdo it.
Striving for harmony
A happy family is an art. To create harmony, psychologists recommend:
- smile more often;
- listen with bated breath and admire;
- appreciate the humor of the chosen one;
- strive to get to know a man better;
- give him gifts and thank him for his presents;
- do not control him constantly and do not harass him with jealousy;
- moderation in emotions;
- do not distract from important matters;
- do not interfere with his vacation with friends;
- take friends for shopping, not a husband;
- remain yourself, strive to see the positive in everything;
- get rid of bad habits;
- love yourself;
- learn to accept help;
- forget about mistakes and not dwell on the past.
A gloomy woman does not cause admiration. A smile will tell about the acceptance of the chosen one and his full approval. It will signal the reciprocity of feelings. An excellent support in a difficult situation will be the addition to a smile in the form of a gentle look with special warmth.
It will increase self-esteem and give confidence increased attention to the chosen one. Do not interrupt him, explaining that what is being spoken is already known. Be sure to voice that something in a man likes. The stronger sex appreciates praise addressed to itself.
The attitude to humor speaks of respect. Let the anecdote be old, but it is worth laughing at it so that the man does not think that he is not interested in his beloved.
Trusting relationships are built on the knowledge of the chosen one. It makes sense to learn more about his childhood, youth, habits and hobbies. It's great if it turns out that you can do what you love together
Men love pleasant surprises. A special attitude will be emphasized not so much by a luxurious expensive present, as by a hand-made thing. Be sure to thank him for the gifts. It is important to demonstrate that the attention of the chosen one is the most important thing. Then he will strive to please again and again.
Men value freedom. Total control can alienate even an exemplary family man. And trust from the good side will show the chosen one, then the husband himself will understand that too often you should not leave your companion alone.
Sensitive ladies are attracted to men, only you need to be careful with the manifestation of such feelings.
Work and career are extremely important for the head of the family. It takes time to succeed, and constant calls greatly interfere with concentration on business. The man cannot pay attention to the chosen one every second in fact.
With a trusting relationship, it makes no sense to be afraid of going to the left: representatives of a strong part of the population prefer to rest with friends, and not "girlfriends"
You can experiment with the image, having noticed that the husband likes a certain type of woman. But one must not forget about one's own individuality.
In life, positive is very important, only then luck turns its face. It is extremely important to sincerely love yourself, because this begins a similar attitude towards others. We must allow ourselves to take care of ourselves, learn to accept help. An excess of independence is repulsive. It is also not necessary to constantly remind the chosen one of his weaknesses, all the more to tell others about them.
