Are you encouraging your husband to cheat? Do you notice the particular pressure on your husband? Let's look at the reasons for this behavior.
There are various reasons for this. First moment. Some women think that if they themselves have changed earlier, then after the husband's betrayal, they can not feel guilty, because they will be quits.
Second point. It can happen like this: "Yeah, he will cheat on me now, will cheat, as a result of which he will feel wild guilt in front of me, and will want to curry favor with me somehow." That is, a woman can ask for something more, she can go somewhere, ask for some gifts. Often, men are led to such a simple provocation, and they really feel very ashamed, terrible thoughts do not leave their minds, they say, how is it possible, I changed, I destroyed the family hearth, I betrayed my beloved, you need to somehow urgently make amends, in any case, do not allow the truth to surface up. But men do not realize that a woman often already knows about his betrayal, most likely she even specially brought him to her friend, and she tells all the juicy details to her. Of course, the man is unaware of this and he will try to make amends, carry gifts to his queen until he is completely under his thumb, which is sometimes the main reason why the woman started this game.
And the third point. Some women become more attracted to their man when he is in the hands of another woman. These are the things that usually happen when women push men to cheat.
There are also situations when a woman wants to get a divorce, but cannot find a reason. And betrayal of a spouse is one of the good reasons for a divorce.
Of course, not all women are trying to push their man to this situation. Neurasthenics or women with any mental disabilities are most often prone to such behavior. There are many reasons, however, sane women do not shy away from such methods. Still, try to find a compromise in any situation.
