Faithful to her only woman, no one is surprised. And a man who knows only one lady in his life is practically a museum piece. The well-known opinion about male impermanence is confirmed by statistics. According to statistics, 80% of the stronger sex are unfaithful to their wives or girlfriends. What is the reason for male infidelity?
Naturally, not all men are fickle. There are those who, having “gone through” a few women in their young years, finally find their soul mate, whom they never change. Others (oh, masculine logic! And who is talking about feminine?) Do not go "to the left", thinking: "As long as I am faithful to her, she will not even think about finding a replacement for me." And such loyalty out of self-interest gives rise to rather strong marriages. Many of us know that men tend to possess several women at the same time, since they are polygamous by nature. And where this is condemned, men go to the left in secret from their women, but in Eastern countries, on the contrary, polygamy is even encouraged. And the more wives, the higher the status of a man.
Reasons for male infidelity
In fact, there can be many reasons for cheating. And at least once every woman thought about the question "Why does a man cheat?" Many men listen to such reasons of refusal from sex as “tired”, “I don’t want”, “headache” almost regularly. Perhaps a woman wants to be always sought after, but over time, this pushes the man into the arms of his mistress, tk. she tends to be more accommodating.
It also happens that a couple has a different sexual temperament. For a man with a strong sexual temperament, one woman is simply not enough, and other women come to the rescue. It is interesting that sensitive and intelligent wives in such situations most often understand what is happening and put up with it, it’s easier to live this way.
Sometimes, due to traditions or due to upbringing, a woman does not allow herself some "liberties" in sex, the partner does not like it. And sometimes it happens the other way around - a man is not satisfied with and even frightened by the woman's sexual emancipation, her ability to enjoy making love.
It happens that the breadwinner cheats on his wife out of habit - he walked before marriage and does not want to change anything by getting married.
One of the psychological reasons for a man's betrayal is compensation for failures in life. A career did not work out, there are no close friends, did not make a fortune, and therefore wins women's hearts and immediately throws them away, asserting himself in such a simple way.
Gray in the beard …
This folk wisdom did not arise for a reason. There is a physical and psychological reason for this. More mature men 40 - 50 years old, due to a decrease in the level of male hormones, and hence a decrease in sexual activity, are living through difficult times. They do not want the approach of old age, do not accept the verdict of nature, the man is "peddling." Yes, a young woman will be able to increase male activity, but this is temporary. And then the holiday ends, and the deranged unfaithful husband often tries to return to his wife. But whether she wants to take him back and forgive is a separate question.
What's the conclusion?
Resign and accept everything as it is, or leave it? For many women, the decision is difficult and disappointing. The experience of a huge number of cheated wives, family doctors and psychologists suggests that it is impossible to change an inveterate reveler. Each woman decides for herself whether she can perceive male infidelity calmly and without nerves. If such a situation humiliates her human dignity, then there is no need to burn her nerves and live in discord with herself. It is better to disperse and "rejoice" for a rival-homeowner - he will cheat on her in the same way as on his wife.
