In modern society, there is a cliché that men commit adultery more often and more willingly than women. This is not true. The ratio is about the same. It's just that male exploits come up more often, women are more cunning in this matter. And there are reasons for this. A cheating man in the eyes of society is a strong male, but a walking lady is criticized and shamed. So why do men cheat?
There is always a reason behind male infidelity. No one will go to the side just like that if everything is fine in the family and the person is happy with the relationship. There are several main reasons for men's hikes to the left:
- Probably the most common factor is the sexual dissatisfaction of a spouse. Nature has decreed that men need sex more and more often than women. For the former it is rather a physiological need, for the latter it is a more sacred event. So it turns out: the husband wants, but the wife is not in the mood. And when such a situation becomes a custom in the family, the spouse, consciously or not, will go to the side to seek the satisfaction of his needs. At the same time, he can love and respect his wife, but sometimes succumb to instinct.
- A tense situation, constant scandals and conflicts in the family, feeling unnecessary and insignificant will also push the spouse into the arms of another woman. A man will always strive to go where he is perceived as a strong male, supported and respected, even if there is no reason. To be a leader, a leader, the main thing is the innate instincts of the male half of humanity. And if every day his wife calls him a rag and a weakling, then the likelihood of his betrayal will increase exponentially.
- The banal love of the faithful can serve as treason. This also often happens: a spouse falls in love with another and leaves the family. In this case, even if the wife carries it in her arms, the situation will not change. As they say, you cannot order your heart.
- And one more reason: the search for adrenaline. Gray everyday life can get anyone. And some representatives of the stronger sex thus receive a lot of emotions, a charge of energy that keeps them in good shape and gives them strength to live. A deeper reason for this behavior is internal dissatisfaction with oneself, people and life in general. And this is a frequent request to work with a psychologist.
- The last "motivation" is stupidity. Got drunk and cheated on. I got angry and cheated. I wanted to take revenge and changed. It is about going to the left in an altered state of consciousness or in a fit of emotion. As a rule, having come to his senses, a man regrets his act.
If cheating occurs in a loving and respectful couple, it is necessary to have a heart-to-heart talk and find out the reason for what happened so that this does not happen again.
