Psychologists say that among their clients, they often come across girls who are prone to choosing "inaccessible men." Most explain this by chance, but this is not the case. We ourselves make a choice in everything, perhaps on a subconscious level.
Inaccessible men are defined according to several criteria:
1. Mostly married or in a relationship. For example, it is not uncommon for a girl to choose a busy person among a huge number of men.
2. In the background there are men, whose mother is in the first place in importance. You can often hear that guys who love their mother will also treat their spouse. However, if there is a relationship in a couple, and the mother still takes the first place, then you need to leave such a man without hesitation.
3. There are partners at a distance. These include those men who are not always with you. And this is not necessarily physically, that is, when he is constantly busy with something and his feelings and thoughts are not here.
So why do girls choose exactly "such"? There are many reasons for this: lack of self-esteem, self-criticism, or all sorts of attitudes (like: "all guys are the same", "something is better than nothing"). Perhaps parental influence. For example, when in the family she has not been given enough influence, and she is looking for the same relationship in marriage. It is not uncommon for a copy of behavior when a girl's mother was married to inaccessible men. On a subconscious level, the daughter begins to do the same.
There are cases of fear of close relationships. Who has had a bad relationship before and eventually a broken heart. In such cases, the girls are not looking for a permanent partner, but fenced off from them. The relationship of the girl's parents affects. Cases when ancestors did not provide the required care, on the emotional plane. Perhaps the ancestors were busy at work or the child turned out to be an uninvited "guest", there are many options.
The outcome of such upbringing, the girl will strive to receive the warmth that she was not given in childhood. Psychologists say that we are looking for a partner in our inner likeness. Therefore, it is worth communicating only with those people who you like. Find an activity that will strengthen your inner peace and harmony. Harmony is a balance between attitudes towards yourself and those around you.
There are many more reasons for such a relationship when girls stop at the choice of inaccessible men.
