Every girl dreams of her marriage to be long, carefree and happy, full of love, passion and respect for each other. Sooner or later there comes a moment when young ladies are seized with fear and never get married at all. And so that friends and relatives do not gossip behind their backs, the only way out is to marry at least someone. However, there is no need to rush. It is worth taking a closer look at your chosen one in order to understand whether he is suitable for the role of a life partner or not.
What you should pay attention to:
1. Attitude towards the fairer sex. Men who judge and gossip about unfamiliar women are petty by nature and unworthy of respect. In addition, a man's attitude towards his mother can tell a lot about him, for example, whether he will perceive his spouse as an equal partner, whether he will raise his voice or insult.
2. Approaches and principles to raising children. Start a conversation about parenting and find out the point of view of your chosen one on this matter. Do not interrupt the interlocutor, listen to the end of his monologue. In matters of raising children, the main thing for spouses is the ability of both partners to agree on what model of behavior to build. So that the child does not associate dad with kindness and love, and mom with order and irritation, it is important to find a middle ground. Going to extremes is also not worth it: being too soft will lead to being spoiled, and being too strict will lead to being intimidated.
3. Is it possible to count on a future spouse in difficult times. It is important for every girl to know that there is a strong shoulder nearby that will support her in any difficult moment. If a man does not show proper participation and refuses to help, it is worthwhile to think again whether such a person is suitable for the role of a life partner.
4. Having goals. The main thing here is not even the presence of a goal, but a precisely planned plan to achieve it. Achieving a common goal will be the foundation of a long and successful marriage.
5. Sex. Intimacy is very important in a marriage. It is important to understand whether the partner takes into account the wishes of the other half in bed, whether the woman achieves orgasm and whether sex brings her pleasure and pleasure. If not, then such a marriage is doomed to failure.
Everyone knows that love is irrational, and at the peak of lofty and tender feelings, you can make the wrong choice. Falling in love is the most wonderful stage in a relationship, however, marriage is serious and for a long time, so you should not be guided by emotions alone. A sober look from the outside and an assessment of all the positive and negative qualities of a partner will help you make the right decision.
