Relatives, friends, romantic partners - people tend to miss them. Interestingly, a person may not always be aware of the reasons for these feelings.
The habit and fear of being alone
One of the most common reasons people miss not only other people but different places and things is because of habit. This is how the human psyche is designed to strive for stability. Therefore, when a person sees someone every day or regularly, communicates with him, spends time together, he gets used to it. And if for some reason this communication is interrupted for a long time or for good, something like withdrawal arises, a person feels an emptiness inside himself - after all, this space was previously occupied by someone.
People, especially those who tend to become attached, may feel uncomfortable for some time after being fired and miss even those colleagues whom they dislike, but then happily forget them. This suggests that it is not at all necessary to have love or sympathy in order to miss someone.
In addition, socializing with other people often helps you not feel lonely. A person who is accustomed to sharing the details of his life and experiences with someone, even being alone with himself, can mentally conduct dialogues with him. In the event of a sudden separation, he may suddenly feel lonely.
Striving for diversity
Another reason is that people complement and fill each other's lives with different things that only they can bring, due to their individuality. Everyone thinks and behaves differently, and no matter how similar two people are, no two people are alike. Therefore, it is natural to miss the novelty and variety, the unpredictability that others bring to life.
Love or addiction
And, finally, the feeling of deep intimacy with someone and love - for your child, parent, brother or sister, spouse, friend, that is, makes you feel bored. when a person is part of the life of another and one of the factors of personal happiness. In such cases, people want to know where their loved ones are, how they spend their time, they want to give care to them and accept it in return.
However, such feelings should not be confused with dependence on someone. In this case, the person is selfish and thinks more of himself. When he is bored, he feels inferior and worries about how this separation affects him, while he is much less concerned about how the object of affection is doing. Such a person may be bored because of his instinct for possessiveness.
