It doesn't matter why you decide to stop communicating, but you want to do it painlessly. Scenes and showdowns attract few people and there are ways to avoid them. Make a decision, choose a method and prepare mentally for its implementation.
Instructions
Step 1
The methods are universal and will suit everyone. But first, consider whether you are doing the right thing. Perhaps the reason is not so tragic and the problem can be solved without parting. It is bad when a person commits a mistake, but everyone has the right to make a mistake.
Step 2
Talk to the person frankly, tell your feelings and thoughts about your relationship. Avoid accusations - they encourage you to analyze the circumstances, talk only about yourself (I felt, I understood, it hurts, etc.). Stick to the rules: do not insult, do not humiliate, do not blame.
Step 3
Give time and opportunity to repent and improve. Hasn't changed and stayed the same? Then talk again, but that you are parting with him forever.
Step 4
Choose unambiguous expressions if you decide to stop communicating forever. There is no need to create the impression that there is an opportunity to resume everything after a while or to set conditions: "if … - then …".
Step 5
The conversation should be personal, avoid communicating such things remotely, unless there is a specific reason for it (illness, being in different cities, etc.).
Step 6
You can stop communicating without talking, that is, to encourage the person to stop texting you, calling you, coming to visit. Make it clear to the person that you are not disposed to communicate. Start giving monosyllabic answers to his questions: ok, everything is fine, there is nothing to talk about, etc.
Step 7
Do not ask questions back, so that the person does not have the opportunity to talk about themselves in detail.
Step 8
In electronic communication, do not reply to messages with useless information, for example, with anecdotes, links to sites, etc. For your part, also exclude such messages, even if you really want to share with someone. Set the status: not available.
Step 9
When making phone calls, refer to being busy, after saying goodbye, hang up.
Step 10
Refuse to come to visit and do not invite to your place. If a person asks himself, then find a reason why you cannot accept him at the specified time, as well as before or after him.
