For many young people, the real challenge is keeping up a conversation with a girl. As you know, women love with their ears, so you should not count on the opportunity to make the right impression only with your appearance. To elicit a positive response, you need to be able to interest the girl in the conversation. There are a number of simple but effective tricks for this.
Instructions
Step 1
The first thing that must be firmly remembered: girls are also people, and not mysterious aliens, and although their interests may differ from traditional male ones, it is still quite easy to find understanding with them. Just like guys, girls want genuine self-respect. They like to be treated with attention and compliments. And, just like guys, girls appreciate a good sense of humor and jokes.
Step 2
If you like a girl and you do not know how to start a conversation with her, ignore this invitation to meet.
Step 3
Young people often say that they simply do not know what to talk about with girls in order to arouse their interest. Let's open one important secret: the topic of the conversation does not really matter, unless you are solving business issues. At the beginning of the acquaintance, you can comment on any surrounding event or phenomenon, joke slightly about this, you can ask the girl's opinion or herself. Just remember that you shouldn't joke about the person you are talking to until you know her well enough. Even a joke that is innocent in your opinion can seem offensive and cause a negative reaction.
Step 4
In order to make a positive impression on women, it is worth taking a little time and learning the art of complimenting. It is important to remember that a compliment is not outright flattery, but a way to tell a person something pleasant, to please him. Your compliments should be light and natural. There is no need to artificially invent some outstanding qualities that the interlocutor obviously does not have. Also, one should not make a compliment too explicit, "sugary". Saying to a girl you met for the first time something like: "Your lips are so delicious, just like sweet cherries" is clearly not the best option. Such a compliment can be perceived as offensive or stupid. It is much more effective to demonstrate that you are happy with this meeting and that you are pleased to communicate with such an interesting and charming person as this young lady.
Step 5
To guarantee a girl's interest, one must remember an important psychological trick: it is always more useful to talk about the interlocutor than about yourself. Often, guys, trying to make a positive impression, make a serious mistake - they start talking about themselves, demonstrating their achievements and outstanding qualities. And very often they achieve the completely opposite effect - girls begin to consider them narcissistic braggart. To strike up a casual conversation, ask what your interlocutor is doing, where she learns, what she likes. And most importantly, do not forget to listen carefully to the answers, then the girl herself will quietly tell you what you need to talk to, what makes her happy and how she can be captivated.
