Starting a conversation with a girl is the very barrier on the way to acquaintance, which not every young man can overcome. It would seem that difficult? He came up, spoke, that's all. But … "What if she kicks me off?", "If she laughs?", "Say something offensive?" More than half of the guys have such fears.
That is why it is important to think through every detail of the conversation before meeting girls becomes a habit and stops shaking your knees.
Instructions
Step 1
It is important to learn that no matter how the girl reacts to your attempt to start a conversation with her, you will not lose anything! On the contrary, an experience will appear that will be very useful in the future! And over time, you will stop seeing rejections as failures!
So, tuned in to victory (well, who can resist such a man!) And, having decided what you will start a conversation about, you decisively move in her direction.
Step 2
When approaching a girl, it is important to smile and look into her eyes - this is a very successful start to your conversation. After that, it doesn't matter what you tell her. It doesn't matter if you ask how to get to the library or what time it is! Your smile will set the girl up for a positive, and she will answer you in kind anyway.
Pay attention to what she was doing, when you approached, what she was wearing, what her expression is - this will suggest the right topic for conversation. Beautifully dressed - it means that she is going to an event, she is pensive - maybe she is tired or pondering about something, examines the signs - she is looking for something. Turn on your observation!
Step 3
During a conversation, you do not need to shyly lower your eyes and frantically search for a new topic. Smile, be open - girls love sincerity!
If the conversation was a success, and the girl really turned out to be very pleasant, proceed to decisive actions: invite to take a walk, have dinner. This will be enough to get to know her even better and decide on further actions.
See, starting a conversation with a girl is not difficult at all. As practice shows, a girl usually makes contact with pleasure. The main thing is just not to be afraid and believe in yourself!
