In the age of advanced technologies and virtual opportunities, it would seem that it is not difficult to get to know and communicate with the opposite sex. Everything is simplified. But some young people still face the question of how to start a relationship with a girl on the Internet?
Instructions
Step 1
You have made up your mind. The first thing to start with is finding the right site. It is better that he presupposes questionnaires and photo albums, so it will be easier to evaluate the applicant and draw her attention to himself.
Step 2
Next step: a questionnaire. A small presentation of yourself. Here, the main thing is to be careful and in no case bring down a ton of information about your problems, do not ascribe to yourself someone's quotes (nonsense annoys girls), postpone the proposal about sex (vulgarity can push her away), and poetry and other romantic gadgets leave for the first date.
Step 3
Your profile should be original, but don't overdo it either. The more casual she is, the better. If possible, try to convey confidence, decisiveness, calmness. Write about your hobbies.
Step 4
Now about the photo. The picture must be of high quality. It is by him that the girl will evaluate you. Home photos in pajamas, from a friend's birthday and taken with an outstretched hand on the phone will definitely not work. The girl will pay attention to the photo, which will reveal you as a person, will be interesting and unusual.
Step 5
Take a good look at the profile of the girl you are interested in. Pay special attention to the sections of hobbies, books, hobbies. Perhaps you have common interests and then it will be much easier to find topics for conversation. Do not forget to look at the photos of the girl, pay attention to the little things. Suddenly, some photos were taken in the pool, and you are also swimming. Or a girl uploads photos from different countries and is an avid traveler, but you, too, have visited a large number of cities around the world and can easily communicate on this topic. Look for common interests. After all, this is the key to continuing communication.
Step 6
First phrase. “Hi, how are you?” Is dropped immediately. Believe me, every second writes it to her. It is best to use the information from her profile. Let it be an unobtrusive question about her. Girls value attentiveness very much, and the interrogative form of the message suggests an answer. A little sense of humor, preferably no more than ten words in a message and a complete absence of grammatical errors! In almost 90% of cases, she will not let you pass.
Step 7
The message got hooked, correspondence began. Try to adapt to it. You can talk about her dog, what she is watching or listening to. Do not burden the girl with your work, stories about past relationships, generally less about yourself. When she finally speaks, she will be ready to hear anything from you. If she asks you questions, try not to shy away from answering. Don't be too persistent and intrusive in communication. After all, a girl may get tired of an annoying interlocutor who writes to her without interruption, as soon as he saw her online.
Step 8
If communication happens with ease and ease, then gradually you can begin to share stories from your life with her. Great if they are funny and funny. You can share with your interlocutor your experiences, interests, desires and thoughts. But do not immediately lay out everything about yourself. Otherwise, then you will have nothing to write. Better to release information gradually. Remember to ask her questions. Otherwise, then your communication may turn into your monologue.
Step 9
Do not ask personal, intimate questions at the very beginning of the correspondence. This can scare the girl away. Perhaps she is going through parting with a young man and that is why she created a page on a dating site. And the memories of past relationships still hurt her. It is better to communicate at the very beginning on neutral topics: studies, hobbies, travel - these are the ideal topics for the first days of communication on the Internet.
Step 10
If your interlocutor is not a "master of words" and is one of those girls who are not inclined to verbosity, then you will have to write more. Failure to do so may result in awkward pauses and interruptions in communication. If you don't know what to write, and the topics about yourself are already exhausted, then you can tell some interesting stories about your family: if your mom is a cat lover, then you can tell about it. Or maybe your sister is into dancing and tells you interesting stories. You can also tell them to a pen-girl. Of course, if these stories are not personal.
Step 11
You can find the girl you are interested in not on a dating site, but on social networks such as VKontakte, classmates or Facebook. These social networks are the most popular for new acquaintances and communication on the Internet, increasingly crowding out dating sites. Here you can see not only information about the user, photos and videos, but also find out what kind of music the girl likes, what statuses and records she posts on her page, which groups she is subscribed to. The opportunity to find a topic for communication with such information is much greater.
Step 12
In no case, never create fake pages and do not pretend to be another person. Let the photographs you find be a man with the body of Apollo and the face of Brad Pete. But these are just photos that can interest the girl at the very beginning. But in the end, such communication will not lead to anything. After all, you will never be able to see in life, being afraid to disappoint her. Also, don't make up stories about yourself. Deception always becomes apparent sooner or later. And the girl won't trust you. You can become in her eyes an ordinary deceiver and a liar. Be sincere and then communication will become easy and informal.
