So you've won the favor of the girl you've been seeking attention for so long. We agreed with her about a meeting. And now you are worried about only one question: "How to interest a girl and what to do to make the first date unforgettable?" Let's take a look at the rules that you should pay attention to first.
Appearance
Surely you have to look clean and tidy. Consider the presence of some kind of accessory: it will not only interest the lady, but also provide you with a topic for conversation. It can be an original lighter, a funny keychain, a tie with an interesting pattern. In general, something that will arouse her curiosity, and will allow you to tell the story of the acquisition of this little thing.
You noticed that nothing was said about the actual appearance. This is because she is not so important for the fair sex - a pretty face always loses against the background of a nondescript, but self-confident, with a good sense of humor and a benevolent guy.
Don't be upset if you think you are very tall. But you should definitely visit the gym: posture and figure play an important role in conquering.
A place for a date
If the girl did not express her wishes, most likely, she decided to test your organizational skills. And you have to try hard to please her and her taste. How do you know her tastes? If you have mutual acquaintances, you can find out everything from them. Otherwise, you will have to experiment: in summer you can swim on a motor ship, in winter you can go to the skating rink. Or bowling? Having conceived sports events, take into account the wishes of the lady. What if she has a gorgeous manicure incompatible with bowling or poor coordination, with which skating is just a shame?
The first moments
An awkward pause can drag on and ruin all the pleasure of the walk. If the companion is forced to carry on a conversation and make sure that she does not go out, she will decide that you are a terrible bore and is unlikely to want to meet again. When thinking about how to get a girl interested, think of a few different conversation options in advance. This will give you confidence.
Remember, your date doesn't have to be just questions, because you are not interviewing. Funny stories, funny incidents and funny jokes from your life will help to arrange your friend, make her smile and, as a result, will interest you. “He has such a busy life! Of course, you won't get bored with him!”- she will definitely not refuse the next date.
What not to do
Do not ask questions that begin with the words "Can you …?" - the answer to them is unambiguous. Want to sit next to me? Sit down and start a conversation right away. Is it time for a kiss? Just do it. If you are not sure of yourself, kiss the girl on the cheek as if for fun and see her reaction.
Do not apologize when you meet. For some reason, the phrase "Excuse me, can I meet you?" causes a slight disgust in young ladies, spoiled by attention.
Don't try to look your best. First, it is immediately noticeable. Girls are sensitive natures, they smell the catch with their fifth point. Secondly, in the future, you will have to reinforce the stories about the presence of a cool car and your indispensability at work.
