The feelings that faithful girlfriends have towards each other are not limited to ordinary friendships, but become deeper and stronger. But even close people are not immune from quarrels, which should always end in reconciliation.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not aggravate the situation with insults, adding fuel to the fire, remembering old grievances. Try to pull yourself together during a fight and just leave, in no way trying to improve relations on the spot. If you failed to act wisely without starting a conflict, then the likelihood of a quick reconciliation is practically zero. Give yourself and her time to calm down, reflect on what happened and want to communicate again. If the quarrel is small, then 2-3 days will be enough, and if there is a serious disagreement, then a longer break of 7-10 days is needed.
Step 2
Use this time for analysis: you need to find the root cause of the quarrel and think about whether it is possible to resolve your contradictions and how to do it. If the conflict occurred due to a bad mood or an unsuccessfully spoken word and only excessive emotionality led to swearing, then it will not be difficult to make peace. Once you and your friend calm down, it becomes obvious that the reason for the fight is not so serious as to interrupt communication for a long time. Spoken out of anger can stunt reconciliation, but sooner or later you will realize that you want to renew the friendship as soon as possible.
Step 3
Find a compromise if the cause of the conflict is serious, for example, different views on the situation or relationship with a man. Do not leave the problem unresolved so that you do not harbor resentment, which, under the pressure of negative emotions, will sooner or later lead to an even greater quarrel. It would be wrong to give up on the conflict, step over and forget the unpleasant moments. Talk about what happened and come to an agreement: a mismatch of views also happens with kindred spirits - this is quite normal for two individuals, therefore, it is wrong to argue and convince you that you are right; if a man is involved in a quarrel, then you need to act carefully, without interfering in the love affairs of a friend.
Step 4
Give in and take a step towards the first one: even if you are not to blame, ask for forgiveness for the negative words spoken about her. The best friend will be grateful, be sure to admit her mistakes and also apologize to you. But if the fault lies entirely with you, then all the more you need to be the initiator and say how much you regret what happened and want to make peace. You should not persuade your friend to communicate with you, because if she loves you, she will definitely forgive after a sincere apology and a sincere conversation. Intransigence can indicate that a friend does not want to forgive you - unfortunately, the best friendship can also end.
