In a family, one cannot do without quarrels between a man and a woman. The main thing is to learn how to resolve these conflicts and find a compromise. A woman is an emotional hot-tempered creature. A man must show resilience and take control of the situation.
Instructions
Step 1
A quarrel is something that has already happened. This means that we must take it as given. That is, it is already impossible to fix anything, but to get out of this situation beautifully and to make sure that there will be no disagreements on this topic in the future. It is important to remember this and not succumb to emotions, then the way out of conflicts will be much easier and, as a result, everyone will be satisfied.
Step 2
Very often, girls, quarreling with their soul mate on one occasion, begin to accuse him of all mortal sins, remembering all his jambs from the past. Therefore, it must be slowed down and returned to the original cause of the quarrel.
Step 3
There is no point in trying to convey something to the weaker sex while she screams in a fit of anger. She simply won't hear anything. And this is a normal state in a fit of anger. You need to wait until she calms down and then you can already express your point of view.
Step 4
You can always come to a compromise. The main thing is to understand this for both. No matter how violent the quarrel was, the main thing is to remember this rule. Then it will be much easier to negotiate with each other.
Step 5
It is very important for girls to be heard. Therefore, a man should always show it to her. How? You just need to repeat her displeasure after her.
Step 6
No need to defend your point of view. It can be delivered in peacetime. And during scandals, a woman tries to satisfy her own discontent. She does not need serious proceedings, she needs to show attention, understanding, love and its importance in the life of her husband.
Step 7
Some believe that any problem with their soul mate can be solved with the help of sex. No, really. In this way, it can only be solved temporarily. But the conflict will not keep itself waiting long for a repetition. Sex can be the outcome of a quarrel, only when the misunderstanding has been eliminated, the problem has been sorted out, conclusions are drawn, promises to change behavior are given.
Step 8
Also, a quarrel can be ended with a date, a walk, a romantic dinner, a favorite pleasant pastime for two.
Step 9
It should be taken as a rule that in any quarrel between beloved spouses, the main thing is not to win each other, but to solve the root of the problem and preserve love and relationships.
