Taking back the woman you broke up with is one of the most difficult and, in a way, the most humiliating tasks you can set for yourself. You will have to deal with all the misunderstandings, anger and injustice that have taken place. If you decide to try to return your beloved, follow these rules.
Review your motivation. Do you want to return her because you love, or simply because you are unable to cope with the pain caused, or do you just want revenge? Why did you break up? Are there other reasons why this happened, can you rise above them, or has something changed? If you feel that existing problems will somehow be solved by themselves, you risk experiencing another breakup. Determine why you want to reconsider the relationship once ended.
Sorry. It's a bitter berry, but rebuilding a relationship requires you to dig into your conscience and be able to adequately apologize. Set aside half an hour for self-criticism, and take an inventory of the big problems, quarrels and arguments that led, in the end, to the breakup. Admit your mistake and apologize. Even if it is just a beautiful gesture, she will appreciate it, and consider it as a step forward.
Talk. Arrange a meeting with her and talk about your feelings and that you would like to restore the relationship. Try to objectively admit your mistakes and demonstrate positive aspects. Remind her of situations when you were good together. Do not forget to highlight those characteristics that you value the most. But, of course, do not humiliate yourself or beg. Maintain your dignity and masculinity.
