Impudence is a quality that the "right" girls or good boys do not have. Impudence is the ability to touch, hook, interest people. It can be compared to a spicy peppercorn, which gives a special flavor to a dish. In this article, we'll talk about how to learn to be cocky and what it will give you in life.
Instructions
Step 1
To begin with, let's deal with the concept of "audacity". In Ushakov's explanatory dictionary, the word "audacity" is explained as "offensive irreverence, impudence, rudeness." What we mean by the word "daring" in the old days was called "daring", "daring", from which the word "daring" comes from. To dare means to dare, to dare, to dare, to dare, to encroach.
Step 2
To be cocky, first of all, you need to believe in yourself: in your capabilities, abilities and luck. You can't be cocky and insecure at the same time. And to believe in yourself, you just need to want it.
Step 3
Every daring act is a risk. To be able to take risks, you need to be courageous and decisive: "You have to fight - so fight!" After all, what is the difference between a cocky person and an indecisive person? While the indecisive stands on the sidelines and mumbles something, the impudent boldly says what he thinks. And by the way, it's not that easy. After all, how were we raised? "Keep your head down", "be a good (obedient) boy / girl", "everyone does it", etc. So, you need to throw all these limiting settings out of your head. Because being cocky means trusting yourself and questioning authorities.
Step 4
Impudence is always going beyond and breaking convention. There is such an expression - "on the verge of a foul" (it is associated with the sports term foul - "violation of the rules of the game"). And in this regard, being cocky means being a little "bully" at heart. And this requires courage. Courage is what is called valiant prowess, recklessness or carelessness. Courage is a state of mind when there is a feeling that you are breathing deeply and you can handle everything. The secret of courage is the magic word "Easy!" And after the courage there is a drive - an energy charge, "wings behind your back."
Step 5
Sounds tempting, doesn't it? Now compare the typical state of the majority. You work, you communicate with someone, you are interested in something, you love someone, but you still have the feeling that something is missing! Everything is somehow gray, ordinary, boring and mediocre. So, in order to change this, you need to dare and prove yourself. In the end, we live only once, and you need to live it brightly and boldly. Go for it!