For some, moving is akin to a disaster, for others it is new perspectives, happiness, peace of mind. What is it connected with and why this is happening, let's try to figure it out.
How often, after another turmoil in life, the thought appeared in your head to give up everything and move to live in another city? Change your job, apartment, turn your life 180 degrees, and preferably for the better.
But, at best, a thoughtless move will bring you disappointment, at worst, burning the bridges of the old one, you can lose something more - close-minded people, the possibility of close communication with relatives, memorable places close to your heart, and so on. Awareness of all this will come later, in a new place in the form of melancholy or despondency. And all due to the fact that in your thoughts an urgent move is an abstract picture of an ideal life, somewhere else.
So, if you are still in the mood for moving to another city, you should ask two questions:
1. Why do I want to move?
2. Should you move?
So, let's take a closer look at the questions.
Why do I want to move?
The desire to move often arises when a collapse occurs in your life - quarrels with loved ones, children do not obey, friends for any reason limit communication with you. To all this, there is a blockage at work, wages are low, and only negative emotions from communicating with colleagues. Compounding all of the above is the weather, bad roads, unfriendly neighbors, etc. etc.
Should you move?
If you agree with most of the statements above, then it is logical to assume that moving will solve all your problems. Maybe. However, before you start developing a vigorous activity related to the move, think about whether you yourself may be the reason for such a life. How often do you pay attention to your significant other? When did the whole family spend the weekend together? Do you help children solve serious problems they think? Is your boss picking on you for the simple reason that you don't deliver on time? And colleagues do not want to communicate with you because you lack tact. Do you always behave respectfully towards your neighbors? It is always easier to blame parents, neighbors, the state for all our problems. But there is only one conclusion - you should start with yourself. To change your life, you have to change yourself. Sign up for courses of interest or upgrade your qualifications to climb the career ladder or change jobs. Try to build the right relationships in the family, be more benevolent, etc. Changing yourself can lead to more success than moving.
If, after honest answers to questions, you realize that this is not an expansive impulse and not an escape from problems, but a deliberate step, only then you can safely begin to translate the idea of moving into action.
