Many people are increasingly faced with problems associated with psychological complexes. In the overwhelming majority of cases, this comes from childhood, and the negative effect comes already when a person has become a full-fledged adult personality.
There is a certain set of "clamps" and complexes that occurs in people who have met with the wrong upbringing, the formation of their identity was done incorrectly, was distorted.
Fear of communicating with strangers
As an example: you approach a stranger and are afraid to start a dialogue. You understand that the ability to communicate with new people is a very important and useful skill, but something stops you. An inner feeling that prevents you from doing what you need to do.
It is also worth mentioning here that the fear of interacting with more status, high-ranking people is also a very complex complex that goes back to distant prehistoric times. Fears appear that you are lower than him, that this person will simply throw you out of his environment.
Fear of sharp criticism
This complex is based on the fact that you are constantly afraid to take on a new business, start a business, learn a new language, and so on because you think that outsiders will express their opinion, criticize all your plans. This uncomfortable feeling does not disappear anywhere even after overburdening yourself.
The fear of public speaking also applies to this point. The person has a fear of being judged by the audience. She believes that something is wrong with her, she is not worthy of quality attention and understanding from other people.
Anxiety about your future
Misunderstanding: “Who am I in this world? What should I do? Most people just work in the office, do something incomprehensible, and then ask questions. They are not looking for their purpose, they only multiply internal questions.
Fear of conflict
The inner conviction that if a person defends his interests, to prove his point of view, he will certainly be hurt: morally or physically. School is a striking example. The hierarchy that is built in this place teaches that there are weak and strong people, and conflicts lead to unpleasant consequences.
Solution
If you find in yourself at least 1 of the above points, study psychology, understand how it works. Explore this topic inside and out. Pay attention to those aspects that relate to early development, to the formation of a personality at different stages of life. From the age of 3, pumping in late adolescence.
There will be no solution to a psychological problem without an integrated approach and analysis. The percentage of people who have overcome complexes in themselves on the so-called overcoming themselves is extremely low. The thing is that in this way you solve only the consequences obtained due to improper psychological development.
