Love cannot be controlled. The choice of the chosen one or the chosen one happens, as it were, against our will, and sometimes falls far from the best people in terms of moral qualities. The attraction arises by itself. What if you are lucky enough to fall in love with a drinking woman? What if your woman is an alcoholic?
Instructions
Step 1
They say that female alcoholism is not cured. This is not true.
Much depends on the environment and what this environment gives to a woman with alcoholism. If a woman is experiencing severe pressure on the psyche, an acute lack of love, mental discomfort - she will look for a way to relieve stress, relieve mental pain. If she is surrounded by love and attention, the desire for alcohol can weaken, or even completely disappear. It must be understood that women who drink are people with an unstable psyche, therefore it is very important to create an environment around a woman that promotes a sober lifestyle and mental balance. And ideally, a loving man next to such a woman should be prepared for the fact that he will often have to play the role of her personal psychologist. And not many are capable of this.
Step 2
Every misfortune has a reason. A disease can be cured, first of all, by understanding the deep causes of its occurrence. Only then can we talk about healing.
The reasons leading to alcohol dependence in a woman are often complex and do not lie on the surface. It can be bad heredity, and traumas experienced in youth, and the death of a loved one, and psychological problems - self-doubt, jealousy, a feeling of inner loneliness.
In a word, a person has many reasons for drunkenness. But some drink - others do not. So the main reason for female alcoholism is still a weakness of character. All a loving man can do for her is to protect her from breakdowns and make sure that the woman does not have the desire to get drunk. In other words, you need to try to injure her psyche as little as possible. And this is often not easy, since women prone to alcoholism themselves look for a reason for a breakdown, are provocateurs of conflicts, subconsciously form a situation that can "justify" the use of alcohol.
Step 3
The best way to combat a woman's alcoholism is constant prevention. It is necessary to create conditions under which she will not be able to drink, even if she wants to. A man should remember that there should be no alcohol in the house in which a drinking woman lives. A woman prone to alcoholism should not even hear the smell of alcohol. He himself must put an end to alcohol. This is difficult to do, because the world around you, colleagues, friends - everything will provoke, tease, seduce. It takes tremendous will and toughness to deal with such issues. Most likely, the troubled couple will even have to lose most of their friendly contacts. Understanding friends will not even admit the thought that you can come into the house with a drink or even just - drunk. And those who do not care what happens to a problem couple simply should not come into the house. It is worth pondering: is there any need for "friendships", thanks to which the life of a loving problem couple includes something that destroys relationships, health and psychological comfort.
Step 4
Often, the need for alcohol provokes aggressiveness. Almost every person has it. With the right approach, aggressiveness is sublimated, reworked in an effort to influence the world around us. Someone, like Adriano Celentano in the movie "The Taming of the Shrew", chops wood - and someone draws pictures, is engaged in hunting, devotes free time to activities related to the processing of excess adrenaline.
Step 5
Perfectly reduces internal sex aggression.
A loving man can also remove alcohol dependence in his beloved woman in a radical way: for example, take a vacation at his own expense, take his beloved to a secluded place where there will be no opportunity to drink alcohol, and devote time to strengthening relationships, romance and sex. If the relationship of a problem couple is based on mutual attraction, on love - a woman with a weakness for alcohol will be much more interesting to study the Kama Sutra with her beloved than to taste the most exquisite alcoholic beverages. As a rule, such a "vacation for two" puts in order the internal psychological mechanisms and makes it possible for a woman to completely recover from alcohol addiction.
